[stolemyheart87]

I have been dating 1 guy for the past 2 months, but I am also talking to a few other guys as well, and want to date them as well. But when it comes down to the obvious, them asking me out, or me asking them out. I always noticed it is always me having to ask the guy out, is that bad? Shouldn't it be the guy asking the girl out? If I am the one to ALWAYS make the moves, isn't that bad?

[~Christina]

I already responded on one of your other threads. Since they all revolve around the same things

[divine1966]

Yes if you are always the one asking them it is pretty much a sign they are not that interested and that's maybe why it doesn't last. Maybe you can also raise your standards and date better quality men.

[stolemyheart87]

Uh okay.....

[Crazy Hitch]

And this guy knows that you're not loyal and not in an exclusive relationship with him and will just date others, I take it you've been upfront and honest with this guy, since I saw your other thread about cheating.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch

And this guy knows that you're not loyal and not in an exclusive relationship with him and will just date others, I take it you've been upfront and honest with this guy, since I saw your other thread about cheating.

They only had 4 dates and he cancelled last date plus he never initiates anything. I wouldn't call it a relationship. She can date others

[Crazy Hitch]

Originally Posted by divine1966

They only had 4 dates and he cancelled last date plus he never initiates anything. I wouldn't call it a relationship. She can date others

Cheers. That puts it into perspective. Statement retracted.

[stolemyheart87]

Yeah besides we are both on dating websites, and never made it exclusive so we are both free to date or talk to others.

[LiteraryLark]

This is a horrible low-budget production and I want my money back.

[scorpiosis37]

If they're not asking you out, they're just not that interested.

[stolemyheart87]

Well then how do I know if a guy is interested or not? It seems nothing I do is right.

[Bill3]

Well then how do I know if a guy is interested or not?

A guy who is interested asks you out consistently and contacts you consistently and continues to do those things consistently over time.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by stolemyheart87

Well then how do I know if a guy is interested or not? It seems nothing I do is right.

It's simple. He'd be asking you out and he'd be calling you and texting and he'd be suggesting things more than sex. You won't have to chase him

[Talthybius]

There's plenty of men that refuse to chase.

If they ignore you, you know they are definitely not interested. If they don't ignore, they are either being polite or interested, or somewhere in between.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by Talthybius

There's plenty of men that refuse to chase.

Men don't need to be chasing women either. It should be naturally developing. Forcing people to talk or date is pointless.

[stolemyheart87]

Well me and the one guy I was dating for 2 months, cut ties with me, he didn't want to date me anymore, so that's done. Now I am going to see what happens with these other guys I am talking too.