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Old Oct 27, 2016, 06:07 PM
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He goes out of his way to say hi and speak to me.

Gets distracted from his job duties and everyone leaves late because of it. Not every shift, but more than once.

He smiles a certain way, his face lights up. He doesn't smile like this around other people that I noticed.

And he cares about me. A LOT. He's been terribly sweet to me.

There just seems to be something between us. A connection. I don't know how to explain it. And I can't tell if I'm the only one feeling it.

I'm kinda sorta high functioning crazy. I'm worried all of it is in my head or reading too far into things. I've never been good at determining whether or not someone likes me unless they're very blunt.
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Old Oct 27, 2016, 06:12 PM
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I try to kiss them and they kiss back or they try first. That's when the light goes off for me. I might be dense though. Sometimes you can just tell ya know? If you think this person likes you, he probably does. It does sound like it.
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Old Oct 27, 2016, 06:27 PM
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I'm soooo dense. And terrified I'm making the wrong assumptions. The problem is that he's taken and I'm afraid he's going to be like, "You know I have a girlfriend..." And we'd have an awkward conversation.

I haven't made a move on him because of that. It's up to him if he wants to end his current relationship and make a move on me.
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Old Oct 27, 2016, 06:32 PM
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I would say he likes you, but I think you should leave it at that if he's taken. You don't want to be the reason he breaks up with his girlfriend.
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Old Oct 27, 2016, 06:39 PM
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I don't think he is interested in pursuing anything with me otherwise he'd make a move. It's cute he likes me in a non-serious way though.

And no, of course not.
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Old Oct 28, 2016, 02:07 AM
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It's really hard for me to say but based on your interpretation of how you have portrayed him to come across, sounds like he does like you.

Ask others that see the two of you interact what they think.
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Old Oct 28, 2016, 02:52 AM
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It sounds like you work together. Maybe start some friendly conversation and get to know more about him.
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