I have a problem

So I've putting myself out their in the first time in years. Mostly through online since it's hard for me to meet the type of woman im after where I live (smart girls). So I'm actually talking to more than one right now. One of the girls wants to go on a date, which I agreed to. We have swapped numbers and seem to ve getting along very well. My problem is that I have been talking to these other girls while talking to the one I have a date with. So it feels like I'm leading on the others. I would feel bad if I led on the others for a week to just break off with them. I was told that since I haven't actually been on date yet that we are just friends. Im very confused 😕

Have the date, then figure it out. If you wish to pursue her then break contact with the others

I agree with justAfriend. You are not leading anyone on and are free to date several people if you wish. If you begin "dating" them all, then tell them as they would deserve to know you are dating others. You're not married, have fun worry about it once you are actually in a relationship.

Okay so now I have multiple dates. I'm glad I get paid every week now.

That made me giggle...thanks for that.

You're going to have to make a choice there soon after some first dates ..

Yea, it's weird have multiple dates. Never tried juggling all these first dates.

So I decided to just talk and date one at a time. I found myself thinking about one particular girl while I was out with others.

Having too many dates seems like a good problem! If you start to get serious with one of them, of course you need to focus on that one person. But especially if you're meeting these people through a dating website or something like that, they are probably going on a lot of dates too. It seems to be how those sorts of things work. Just be honest, don't make promises you don't intend on keeping, and be nice! It will all be fine!