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My friend, texted me at 9pm the other day. I didn't check my phone until 1am. He has been opening my texts because they show up as "read" do you think he got mad at me because I did not answer his text right away?
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![]() MickeyCheeky
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No. Why do you think he would be mad? I don't expect anyone to respond to my text unless it's normal business hours. People are busy or sleeping at night.
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#3
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Well, given the short explanation it's not enough to be mad, specially if there isn't any reason, people (or at least the ones i know incluiding me) don't get mad all of a sudden. Cheers!
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#4
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You're far from the only one who doesn't reply to texts straight away. And given that you read it at 1am - there's no ways you're expected to reply at that time.
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#5
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I do not expect immediate responses from texts, emails, and social media contact. I consider it rude for people to expect that of me.
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You were sleeping.. I don't think it's necessary to reply immediately.
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#7
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Ask him. or wait until he states that he's mad at you. Don't assume or guess what people are thinking.
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