[sheknowsall]

Hi all,

I'm new but reaching out because I could really use some feedback to the redic situation that I am finding myself in.

My friend of 8 years D is a mess. He has a woman that is the mother of his child and that he lives with but is emotionally involved with another woman. We will refer to the Mother of his child as Sally and the other woman Grace (not their real names)

D broke up with Sally but still lived with her, Sally does not except the breakup so when D starts to Grace it's considered cheating. I know everything about the whole situation but stay out of it. D told me about a new apartment but the only kicker is Grace is my neighbor. I never really like Sally but was introduced to Grace and I really like her. Until my apt is available I have been staying at D and Sallys house and becoming fast friends with Grace. Downside is both women want to talk to D's best Female friend about this horrible situation. I listen and offer advice that I would give anyone. Live your life, do whats best for you. I would get calls from D to hide this thing and that from Sally about Grace. All of the lies, the secrets, the women and D's lack of handling the situation drove me insane and last night I had drinks and told Sally and Grace the truth about each other (on separate occasions i had dinner with one and I'm staying in the others house), D and EVERYTHING. I mean I really just threw it allllll out there. Told things that wasn't my place to tell, told secrets, told EVERYTHING. I just had it. Everyone was miserable and it was making me miserable and I had just had it. Now everyone is mad at me, understandably and I feel sick.

I know what I did was wrong but how do I fix this? or should I let it ride? I want to do the right thing and take responsibility.

[Nammu]

It was broken before you arrived and un fixable. Let them work it out.