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Default Feb 13, 2017 at 09:49 PM
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I'm a romantic.

I love chocolates, warm wishes, hugs... I love love.

I adore my partner, he is amazing and I really love him. But he doesn't do romance the same way that I do. He's more of a companionship type, as opposed to swooning.

He does express his affection. But it's usually subtle; he isn't big on focusing on emotions. I don't mind that, but sometimes I find it hard to understand.

For example, today I sent him a Valentine's Day message, and he hasn't replied. It's certainly not the end of the world, but as a lover of romance, and of the one man, I feel like maybe I'll have to ignore my love of romance (or read more romance novels) for as long as I'm in the relationship (I'm hoping for the long haul).

I was just wondering if anyone else had been in a relationship with someone who had the complete opposite approach to romance to themselves, and whether you were able to find a balance between the two approaches?

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