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Old Feb 13, 2017, 02:47 PM
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My new boyfriend "forgets" me and finds a million of excuses for not seeing me when we dont (even for nearly a month). then when he does get in touch im supposed to believe him and what he sais to excuse himself but i dont.
what should i think? what should i do? should i say something to him or what?
please help. its my first time in love. please help
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Old Feb 13, 2017, 03:04 PM
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I'm sorry. I think you should definitely tell him - if this thing is bothering you and feel like he's not giving you enough attention, then talk with him about this and see how it goes. Good luck
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Old Feb 13, 2017, 04:58 PM
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New boyfriend ? This should be the honeymoon phase.... seeing each other as much as humanly possible.

Cut your losses and end this non-relationship.

You deserve much better
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Old Feb 13, 2017, 09:14 PM
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Doesn't really sound like he considers you a girlfriend.
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Old Feb 14, 2017, 02:52 AM
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What do you like about this relationship?
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Old Feb 14, 2017, 05:39 AM
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You deserve to be with someone who treats you as a priority, not as an after thought.
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Old Feb 14, 2017, 02:32 PM
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Old Feb 15, 2017, 06:10 AM
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You deserve to be with someone who treats you as a priority, not as an after thought.
I agree with this person.
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Old Feb 15, 2017, 08:36 AM
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What are you getting out of this relationship? Why do you consider him a boyfriend?
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Old Feb 15, 2017, 10:29 AM
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You're all right. But a part of me wanted a more detached bf than the last one. But this is too much i guess...
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Old Feb 15, 2017, 08:34 PM
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This brought a tear to my eye. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I have no advice to give, but I am also frustrated with the increasing lack of communications between one another.
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