[str8uptruthandlove]

You know what...
When I tell a guy over and over, "I don't wanna date you, I wanna be single" and he doesn't listen... But instead tries EVERYTHING including trying to buy my affection, begging pleading whining crying guilting manipulating cause he can't stand being alone with his psychotic thoughts for two seconds...

That's not love. It's codependency, it's toxic and suffocating and maddening. I had to move states to escape him (GA was supposed to be my chance to start over, you know) and finally just decided be a total ***** (which I take no pleasure in doing) so he gets the damn hint and leaves me alone! But I'm not mad at HIM. He's young and stupid and naive, deluded himself into thinking he loved me.

What pisses me off is when you call yourself my friend. My honorary brother. But because I wasn't willing to drive 18 hours to break up with the little worm in person (cause I'm done with the crying and pleading and him NOT LISTENING TO ME), he shows you the breakup text, and you judge me for "how I treated him". Are you @$!#^& kidding me?!

Do you know how it feels to have this little boy follow you everywhere, make you feel guilty for trying to get a quiet damn minute for yourself, and basically drive you nuts cause he's so clingy and needy and WRONG for you...

But I'M the bad guy?!?! Cause I was honest that I don't love him and I'd rather be alone? I moved down there to be single and repair the damage from the last creep! How do I keep attracting these psychos?!

You know what? With "friends" like you... Who needs enemies? You're no friend to me. Now kindly f*** off and leave me alone. Judgmental prick...

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I had originally posted this on FB but quickly thought better of it, reposted it here and deleted FB post. I don't need friends and family to know I found ANOTHER stalker. My "brother" Joe was trying to play matchmaker again and was talking me up, so by the time I actually moved to GA and met Matt, he already had "puppy love" written all over his face. Followed me everywhere, cared WAY too much about "making me happy"... It was honestly just really creepy. Sorry for the rant, I decided I needed to get the poison out.

I'm staying single until I figure out why I keep attracting these mentally unstable, "mommy never loved me", Norman Bates PSYCHOS. I hate using that word cause technically I'm one too but... This young man was unhinged in a way that felt dangerous. Like if he got pushed too far, I could easily see him finding a weapon and going on a murder spree. Not kidding. He SCARES me. I'd rather be alone than have one more guy "fall in love" after two freaking weeks!!

[Erebos]

Had my fair share of those, it's not fun.
Especially when you live on an island you can drive the length of in a day.#noescape.

Anyhoo, all the best stay strong block both if necessary, better still,tell your friend to date him if he feels so bad for him.
Good luck,enjoy flying solo, it's awesome.