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I met a guy in February when I wasn't expecting to meet anyone. I went out and we met and I have been seeing him once a week since beginning of Feb.
Its more of a hookup relationship and at first I was ok with that because it was fun and no drama, etc. But now i'm starting to feel offended that he doesn't want more with me, like theres something not good enough about me. I guess I have insecurity issues that need to be worked on too but I just thought he would like me a lot by now. but I can see he doesn't want more with me. I feel like if I keep doing this, it will become harder to let go so I just should do it now. but I have fun with him and I'm attracted to him. I just feel like it will never get anywhere...is it ok to never get deeper with someone, I don't know if I want deep relationships now is it that I don't know what I want should I let him go |
#2
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It's probably best to stop seeing him if you find yourself hoping he'll eventually want more with you because there will be lot of unneccesary hurt if that never happens.
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#3
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So its only been a few weeks since u have known him? and u have seen him once a week? I guess I don't understand what u are expecting from him so soon.
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#4
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If he doesn't want anything serious then it can't really be changed.
Your choice is to either continue the hook-up relationship or do some self-work on how to walk a path of more "serious" relationships. |
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Maybe the two of you are moving at different speeds...
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