[ace333]

Just another rant about how bad my relationship is. I have a narcissistic partner, whdther they are aware or not. I realize he is only here for convenience for him. Been together 8 years and just now all of a sudden he wants to live with me only because he cant stand loving with his alcoholic father. Not because he simply wants to live with me out of love. I hate this relationship. Its been over for years and i still havent left. Cant talk about anything i feel or thinga i want to do. I want to be free but im sure it will be bad either way if i stay or leave. Hes never been physically abusive but mental and emotionally he takes the cake.what should i do and how do i got about it, im ao depressed and frustrated.

[Sunflower123]

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. It sounds like you want to leave but something is holding you back. I hope you make the decision that is right for you and leaves you in peace. I'm here if you want to talk. Hugs coming your way.

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by ace333

Just another rant about how bad my relationship is. I have a narcissistic partner, whdther they are aware or not. I realize he is only here for convenience for him. Been together 8 years and just now all of a sudden he wants to live with me only because he cant stand loving with his alcoholic father. Not because he simply wants to live with me out of love. I hate this relationship. Its been over for years and i still havent left. Cant talk about anything i feel or thinga i want to do. I want to be free but im sure it will be bad either way if i stay or leave. Hes never been physically abusive but mental and emotionally he takes the cake.what should i do and how do i got about it, im ao depressed and frustrated.

First off don't move in with someone that you aren't entirely convinced you want to live with. It's a huge commitment and not one to be taken lightly. Even more so with someone that is wanting to move in with you only to use you as an escape method from their current situation. It won't lead to anything good.

Emotional abuse can be in some ways, as bad or even worse than physical abuse.

I hope you reject his idea to move in with you and you find the courage to get out of this relationship.