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Old Sep 05, 2017, 08:17 PM
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Excuse me but i strongly disagree about "calling them on it". No adult has the right to demand that their parents explain the intricacies of their marriage. She could ask them, but demand NO.

As far as well "you have to live there too" WTF? Artchic is a 30 year woman. Her parents are kind enough to allow her to live in their home. This is not some kind of entitlement.

If therapy is required well then get therapy. But I think respect for the parent's privacy is in order too.
I don't want to open Pandora's box by prying into business that's not mine. Relationship issues are a delicate and personal matter. I honestly don't know what to think right now.
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Old Sep 06, 2017, 08:23 AM
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Hi Artchic, just checking in on you today. I got pretty vehement with my opinions on your situation. Thought of parents breaking up is painful for anyone. I don't mean to deny your pain. My wish for you is that you use this as an opportunity to grow. To realize that you can be a strong mature woman. Your happiness does not have to depend on whether or not your parents remain a unit.
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Old Sep 06, 2017, 08:30 AM
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I don't want to open Pandora's box by prying into business that's not mine. Relationship issues are a delicate and personal matter. I honestly don't know what to think right now.
I think the best you could do is talk to a therapist about your feelings. I also agree with not wanting to pry in a delicate matters. My parents didnt have the easiest marriage when they were younger so I understand how you feel. It could be stressful.
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