[SorryShaped]

I overheard this very beautiful woman talking on the phone about how she needed to lose 40 pounds. Oh hell no she doesn't. She's very curvy and very sexy. I waited until she was off the phone (like a creeper I guess) then told her that she's perfectly beautiful just like this. She thanked me then must have realized I was listening to her call and asked if I'm a creeper. I told her no I just had to tell her that she's great looking and perfect as she is. She said her ex called her fat and made fun of her shape. Back roads got curves and are much prettier ways to go! I didn't say that but was thinking it. She asked for my name and number. I gave her my name and asked instead of my number to just meet me there next time I'd be there and told her when and to wear walking shoes because that's what I'm doing at that time on those days. She said she would like that and would try to be there.
Should I have given her my number? Did I miss out on something because I didn't? Was I being a creeper for listening in? Should I have listened in? Should I have said that? So many thoughts and not enough of me to go around here. I think she's a beauty and I'm not even in the same country as her ballpark, much less her league. I hate baseball analogies but that's all I got for this.
Any help, advice, or anything here would be very welcomed, please

[~Christina]

I might have been creeped out at first but ,... she's asked YOU for your name and number , I think I would have given my number, but enjoy you're next meeting!

Agreed with Christina. And sometimes, we cannot help but overhear someone's conversation.. and you made a meet up with her, so next time, just give her your number. Try not to fret. Sounds like a great new possibility! (((hugs)))

[SorryShaped]

After some kava tea I feel it's either way ok. If it happens, cool, if not, it wasn't meant to be stressed over.

Originally Posted by SorryShaped

After some kava tea I feel it's either way ok. If it happens, cool, if not, it wasn't meant to be stressed over.

Good! That's a great way to be about it.

[SorryShaped]

Every time before that I felt the other person had some strong connection, it's been wrong. I don't trust myself at all after all this mess I am, but that's ok because that sunna***** had been wrong more times than right so far

[SorryShaped]

So caution must be had

[Sunflower123]

I think I understand. So it wouldn't have been wise to give her your number?What about getting hers? I hope when you meet up it goes well. Good luck.

[Teddy Bear]

Should have given her your number

[SorryShaped]

Originally Posted by Teddy Bear

Should have given her your number

Should have gotten her name too! I was so frazzled that she took any interest in me that I'd have felt like I was asking a goddess her name.

[Shazerac]

Originally Posted by SorryShaped

Should have gotten her name too! I was so frazzled that she took any interest in me that I'd have felt like I was asking a goddess her name.

Aww....sorry to hear that maybe you will see her again. And maybe next time you'll get her number

About the phone thing, I think it's weird that people sit in public and talk out loud about personal issues and expect people to pretend they don't hear it. If someone is being particularly obnoxious .... I join in the conversation. They give an odd look and move away. Or on one occasion a lady actually turned to me and said "you're being rude." I replied "I'm being rude??....I'm not the one who's sitting in public talking loudly about the adventures of my va-jay-jay."

Anyway....I don't think you were being creepy to talk to her after what you heard.

[SorryShaped]

Originally Posted by Shazerac

Aww....sorry to hear that maybe you will see her again. And maybe next time you'll get her number

About the phone thing, I think it's weird that people sit in public and talk out loud about personal issues and expect people to pretend they don't hear it. If someone is being particularly obnoxious .... I join in the conversation. They give an odd look and move away. Or on one occasion a lady actually turned to me and said "you're being rude." I replied "I'm being rude??....I'm not the one who's sitting in public talking loudly about the adventures of my va-jay-jay."

Anyway....I don't think you were being creepy to talk to her after what you heard.

I didn't say any of it with intent other than to try to tell her she looks beautiful. I expected nothing, not even a thank you. Da truth shall set you free, but listening in on someone's conversation might get you slapped

[divine1966]

Hopefully she meets you at that spot. I probably wouldn't because I'd be taken aback that I asked a number and gave dudntguce it to me and didn't ask mine (name or number). In my experience when guys don't give true phone number is because they are hiding something (marrried or live with someone and want to be discreet). I had a guy asking my number but not giving his, sure enough he wanted to keep it discreet. Hope your meeting her second time and it works out

[SorryShaped]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Hopefully she meets you at that spot. I probably wouldn't because I'd be taken aback that I asked a number and gave dudntguce it to me and didn't ask mine (name or number). In my experience when guys don't give true phone number is because they are hiding something (marrried or live with someone and want to be discreet). I had a guy asking my number but not giving his, sure enough he wanted to keep it discreet. Hope your meeting her second time and it works out

That's my worry. I've got no ties. Either it's a yes or no, but I'm not going to let that worry overpower me. I've still got 5 days to wait and see. Dunno. I'm just very selective about giving out my number because I've given it to other people that were a-holes and put my number on calling lists and got fake numbers just to irritate me. I don't have much trust in others at all because I've been hurt by them so much. I don't trust my intuitions because I'm usually wrong. I don't know her at all yet.
Either it does or doesn't happen. It's ok if not because she just realized that she's way above me in the looks Dept. I get that. It's obvious. It's good if it does because I need more real world people in my life. I've only got the friends at yoga at this point, with whom I do nothing outside of, and my very short list on FB, under 30, which is about to get shortened again. I hang out with a small club I'm in once a month. That's all I got

If it is meant to be it will be, You should stop worrying about what you didnt do, I think you were nervous when meeting her that you just didnt know what to say, Dont get down on yourself, Hopefully you will meet up again, People always question there selfs when they meet some one they really like