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Sep 27, 2017, 04:50 PM
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Hi guys! I'm new here and stumbled onto this site from an internet search. I need help, I'm completely in love with someone and we called it quits yesterday due to my infidelity and anger issues. I have relationship anxiety I can't stay committed because I fear the person is going to hurt me so I try to hurt them first. What do I do? How do I stop this?
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 MickeyCheeky, Sunflower123
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Sep 27, 2017, 08:14 PM
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What would you think of seeing a therapist?
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#3
Sep 28, 2017, 01:01 AM
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Sep 28, 2017, 05:25 AM
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I wonder if caregivers were inconsistent and/or hurtful to you when you were growing up.
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Sep 28, 2017, 08:14 AM
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There are some therapists that work on a sliding scale. Some churches even have therapists. As an alternative, you could look for books or workbooks that address your specific issue. Either way, I think you'll have to put in some inner work to clear this up. Good luck and best wishes.
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Sep 29, 2017, 08:09 PM
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Im glad you can see how your actions are causing the problems.
I agree......... many Therapist work on a sliding scale.. Look into local county mental health. I found my T there and we worked for 6 years. I hope you reach out for help, you deserve happiness Welcome to PC
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