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Old Oct 12, 2017, 03:09 AM
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If a guy says he's going to teach you about sex through doing it with you and you told him to stop and he did, is it really so bad to still talk to him?
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 04:09 AM
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Do you think that he respected your boundaries?

If so, I think there's no harm in speaking.
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 05:55 AM
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Did something else happen where he wasn't respectful? If he's been respectful of you, then talking to him is not harmful to you.
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 06:31 AM
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Do you think that he respected your boundaries?

If so, I think there's no harm in speaking.
He told me I can say no to it and stopped when I did. So I do feel he respects my boundaries
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 06:36 AM
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Did something else happen where he wasn't respectful? If he's been respectful of you, then talking to him is not harmful to you.
He's respectful of me. I just wondered, because my friend knows about him and I can tell she doesn't like him
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 06:46 AM
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Hmmm..... sometimes our friends don't like whom we choose to be with, but if he's been respectful of you, then I don't see an issue. ((((hugs)))))
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 06:59 AM
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Hmmm..... sometimes our friends don't like whom we choose to be with, but if he's been respectful of you, then I don't see an issue. ((((hugs)))))
Thanks! I like your profile picture. It's pretty
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 07:01 AM
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 07:45 AM
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Why would you want a man to "teach you" about sex?
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Old Oct 13, 2017, 06:24 AM
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As long as he was respectful of you, yes continue talking to him. I agree with Patagonia though. It sounds a little strange.
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Old Oct 13, 2017, 10:38 AM
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Maybe it's just me, it I find it a little odd that he wants to teach you about sex. Are inexperienced? It sounds to me like he wants a conquest. But like I said. It's just me.
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Old Oct 13, 2017, 03:44 PM
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Maybe it's just me, it I find it a little odd that he wants to teach you about sex. Are inexperienced? It sounds to me like he wants a conquest. But like I said. It's just me.


Yes to me....it sounds "fishy." I would ask more questions of this person. Many many questions.
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Old Oct 13, 2017, 03:47 PM
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Maybe he just wants sex and this is his way of getting it, by offering to teach?
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I think even if he was respective.... It to me just reeks of creepy.

Are you both young ? Maybe that is why he thinks his request is an okay thing.

This just strikes me as "odd"
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