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Old Nov 07, 2017, 12:45 PM
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my crush makes me uncomfortable. Part of it is she has strong personality. Another part of it I’m afraid of my reaction to her will give away that I like. If she were to put her arm around me my reaction would give it away. Likewise I would have to manage the temptation hug her. So what are some Polite ways ways to show her without saying anything that I need my space. I don’t want to offended her. Just let her know that it’s more about me than it is her. I’m afraid my reaction to not wanting me touched by her will give away my feelings towards her. The reason I’m asking my uncomfortableness its just with her.

She comes off to me as touchy person. I avoid her because she evokes feelings in me that I’m not ready to deal with.

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Old Nov 07, 2017, 12:53 PM
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How about just being you? Rather than trying to hide stuff and act different, be honest with her. Let her know you like her and you feel so strongly that you need some space. If you are honest and communication, things can only get better...
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