[palsera27]

I came out on Facebook by admitting I loved another woman. However I have a conservative family who says very offensive things to me.

Like I’m confused. Yes I admit I am confused. It’s girl crush. They tell me it’s okay to be attracted to woman. By attracted they mean I like her, think she pretty, etc. when I say attracted I mean I want to be with her hold her kiss her and some other things. The will accuse this woman making me this. My mom thinks this woman confronted me and made me like girls. She will make come out to this woman to humiliate me. Earlier this year my mom forced me to come out to her. It was very traumatizing, but she’s Oblivious to what she has done. She pretended to be accepting to get me to open up to then grilled me about all my friends and demanded to know if was molested or if it rubbed of on me from associating with a gay woman

[sky457]

The situation you are dealing with is awful. It is tough to have loved ones not accept who you are. It took my mom 6 years to come to terms with my depression and accept that I have depression. Although I don't know what you are going through, I do know what it feels like to be looked at as an outsider in a family.

Who are we, to tell those who and who they should not love? Love is a human emotion and it knows no bounds. Be who you are and eventually the cards will fall where they will. Hold strong because love triumphs all. You are allowed to be who you are, nothing more & nothing less. Your family will see it too someday.