[fosterthehuman]

These 3 friends that I knew (one I knew a couple of months) and the others. I had only met a few times. I had heard from the girl friend that she hooked up with one of the guy friends, let’s call the girl sky and the guy Stan. Sky likes this guy friend in the group named ray. Ray likes he back and they have hooked up. During a text convo, I told ray that Stan hooked up with sky. Ray told sky asking her if it was true. She denied it and also said that she’s gonna punch me if she saw me. She messaged me on insta saying that “I can’t believe you tried to steal ray from me” I messaged back saying “all I did was talk to ray” then she started cussing me out.

I then started messaging ray telling him I do t like this. I sent him and Stan voicemails saying that if they steal my suitcases from Stan’s house (I had stuff at Stan’s place) that I’m gonna call the cops, also that I would call the cops if sky hits me. I immediately apologized to Stan for the mean voicemail and he forgave me. But ray didn’t. He said that was really low of me. Then he texted me saying “that’s ****ed up that you lied to sky, saying that I hooked up with you” I said “what? I never said such thing to her” I kept apologizing and apologizing for the voicemails tho and even messaged him on IG. He then blocked me.

I’m really mad at his girl sky cause she called me some nasty names, AND I’m pretty sure she made up that lie. Saying I said hooked up with ray. I mean ray and I never even hooked up wtf.

[fosterthehuman]

I tried calling Ray on a different number I use. He picked up and said hello? But I immediately hung up cause I knew he wouldn’t want to talk to me. I just really wanted him to know the through about this girl Sky and how she made up that lie. I guess i’m just venting right now. Idk what to do or how to move on when people gate me

Avoid all the drama is how you handle it. How old are you? This sounds like high school level drama to me. Just stay out of it all, and don't repeat things people tell you. Just stick to your own business is my best advice.

[~Christina]

What was the purpose of getting involved to begin with ? Telling this one that and someone else ?????

A couple of new friends and you stirred up a mess. :scratchhead:

I think it’s best to just accept that someone doesn’t want to talk you and let them go about there life.

I also wonder if your age might be at play here.