[Lolina]

I don't know if you remember a post I complained about a dull guy at work who kept trying to get out with me and as I know him since years because I have worked for this company before as a temp too I still accepted to go to lunch with him even though I found him boring, dull and was trying too hard.

I went out actually once for a drink with him about 2 years ago and since he has tried to invite me again and I always say no.
So the second part today is that I learnt from himself by ask ing a question as we were talking about kids in general. So the guy has 3 kids and lives with them and their mother.

I know him since a long time, easily 6/7 years, I used to work with his team, thats the way we became "friends" and he never thought about talking about that. He has even asked me to go on holidays with me next time, he was always trying to get closer to me. It's sickening how some people can lie and be dishonest. I felt so bad in the afternoon. He has no shame. At the beginning he seemed embarassed but then said its because with his girlfriend or wife things were not working. I wanted to add it doesnt work since a long time and those last two weeks neither. He is a disgusting pig and if I have a husband one day I don't want him to behave like that.

Even though I don’t like him; it was terrible for me as I struggle a lot to trust people and he proved me that I am right not to.

[SorryShaped]

More of a reason to be honest with him and say "this will never happen."

[Lolina]

Sorryshaped: I think he definitely knows that otherwise he would have talked openly about his family and not pretend to be a bachelor.

[SorryShaped]

He keeps trying. Or at least, he kept trying. I'm hoping this dude just leaves you alone from here on in. You deserve much better

As I remember you didn't like him much and thought he was dull, so at least you don't have to feel bad about turning him down now you have a very valid reason!

[Lolina]

Originally Posted by prefabsprout

As I remember you didn't like him much and thought he was dull, so at least you don't have to feel bad about turning him down now you have a very valid reason!

Definitely. I am surprised because I know him for at least 6 years, 6 years he is sending sms, whatsapp, talking about stupid things and did not talk about his family.His last child is only 2 years old, so the guy is having kids and living with another woman while trying to get in another woman' s pants, he even brought me jewels from a trip.... Crazy isn't it?

My father and a good friend of mine always said a man shouldn't try to sleep or go out with a woman if he has no intention of honoring or be serious with her. This guy is definitely not a gentleman. He is a lier.

Originally Posted by Lolina

I don't know if you remember a post I complained about a dull guy at work who kept trying to get out with me and as I know him since years because I have worked for this company before as a temp too I still accepted to go to lunch with him even though I found him boring, dull and was trying too hard.

I went out actually once for a drink with him about 2 years ago and since he has tried to invite me again and I always say no.
So the second part today is that I learnt from himself by ask ing a question as we were talking about kids in general. So the guy has 3 kids and lives with them and their mother.

I know him since a long time, easily 6/7 years, I used to work with his team, thats the way we became "friends" and he never thought about talking about that. He has even asked me to go on holidays with me next time, he was always trying to get closer to me. It's sickening how some people can lie and be dishonest. I felt so bad in the afternoon. He has no shame. At the beginning he seemed embarassed but then said its because with his girlfriend or wife things were not working. I wanted to add it doesnt work since a long time and those last two weeks neither. He is a disgusting pig and if I have a husband one day I don't want him to behave like that.

Even though I don’t like him; it was terrible for me as I struggle a lot to trust people and he proved me that I am right not to.

Sorry you have to go through this.
But what does keep you from severing contact with him?