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Mar 30, 2018, 11:53 PM
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My friend has had emotion problems for a very long time. She has a therapist of her own, but she refuses to ask her for advice on this topic. This friend of mine has a boyfriend that I am also friend's with. They have been together for almost two years. Her and I have been friends for years. We often talk about being together in the future and talk about having children and living together. A couple of weeks ago, her and I did some regrettable things and she cheated on her boyfriend with me. Her and I both immediately regretted this. We are now keeping this secret from her boyfriend. She is being really distant from him and neither of us know what is going to happen next.
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Mar 31, 2018, 02:31 PM
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Why are you talking about being together in the future? What has prevented that from happening more recently?
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Mar 31, 2018, 02:45 PM
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Sounds like you got yourselves in a bit of a pickle... You know theres that saying what they don't know wont hurt them but then you and her are close to the boyfriend being its her boyfriend and sounds like your friend so i could imagine the awkwardness and how the guilt will most likely eat at one of you if not both till you cant take it anymore and tell him. Once he finds out it will probably affect all your relationships with one another so you guys gotta decide what's the best thing to do. Plus sounds like you guys are "in love" in a way about planning for your futures together, so once that all happened you said you both regretted it? In a way where you regret making the mistake and being deceitful or a mistake and realized maybe you guys aren't "for eachother"? Cuz if you guys really wanna be together you should, theres no use in her stringing the boyfriend along when she clearly has feelings for you because the longer it goes on the worse it is for him and no one deserves to be with someone who wants someone else... I'm just giving my personal opinions on what i'd most likely do but of course everyones different and i don't know the whole situation, but i believe in love and if you love this girl then go get her! (:
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Mar 31, 2018, 05:05 PM
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Her heart and soul is not 100% in the relationship. The best thing she can do, for her boyfriends sake, is leave.
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#5
Apr 01, 2018, 02:46 AM
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