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Default Jun 03, 2018 at 03:59 PM
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Not as much as you're thinking. What is "a lot"?
That depends on your definition, I cannot determine on my own

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Special treatment is colloquially used and it's connotations are pretty well known. I don't need you to define it for me.
I have not defined it, you made the definition.
That's the beauty of special treatment - it doesn't have to be defined, it doesn't have to be explained. It's just is

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Not really. I'm not looking for an ideal. The right man doesn't exist. I don't like how particular men behave, is all.
I can understand how some behaviors are unlikeable. I hope you will be able to find a more suitable partner. The question is, how do you picture him?
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Default Jun 03, 2018 at 04:14 PM
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That depends on your definition, I cannot determine on my own
The point is, your definition is subjective. The original remark was of no relevance.

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I have not defined it, you made the definition.
That's the beauty of special treatment - it doesn't have to be defined, it doesn't have to be explained. It's just is
Again, there's no need for personal definitions. People who have their personal variation of the English language to use at convenience are contemptible.

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I can understand how some behaviors are unlikeable. I hope you will be able to find a more suitable partner. The question is, how do you picture him?
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A featherless bipedal would suffice.
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I know what you want. You want special treatment. You want a guy to "sniff" who you really are and get you right from the start
But bear in mind - it also takes being a bit more... straightforward
As immersed in your inner world as you are, it takes a bit of extraction and expression which can actually build a relationship, and not an expectationsship
I feel the same!
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Default Jun 03, 2018 at 08:22 PM
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People who have their personal variation of the English language to use at convenience are contemptible.

Ahhh, someone who gets me! Words mean things, not just whatever you want them to mean!

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Default Jun 03, 2018 at 09:11 PM
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A featherless bipedal would suffice.
With broad flat nails, one would hope.
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