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Old Jun 15, 2018, 03:56 AM
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I have been talking to this girl more than I month, we were pretty close at one point. We used to text everyday and phone call sometime. We were like bf and gf but she completely changed about two weeks ago. She push me away and seems cutting me off. And said she is not ready for anything new even she used to call me bf. Whatever I try to approach or stuff she refused and now she doesn't really reply my text and I feel like a completely stranger to her.
What can I do?
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Old Jun 15, 2018, 04:07 AM
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What does PTSD have to do with it? Anyway, she may act extreme, but you already have an explaination: she doesn't feel ready yet. You can't really do much about it..
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Old Jun 15, 2018, 04:15 AM
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PTSD is a condition which results as being exposed to a traumatic event. Sufferers often feel overwhelmed by the simplest of events.
While you may be attracted to this person who’s got PTSD, you may need to wait a long time before she can accept your attraction if ever.
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Old Jun 15, 2018, 09:06 AM
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You can leave her alone, rather than trying to figure out how to change her mind. That is the respectful thing to do.
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Old Jun 15, 2018, 04:13 PM
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There is absolutely nothing you can do but leave her alone. PTSD has nothing to do with it.
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Old Jun 16, 2018, 12:34 AM
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Thank you all, but the fact is I just don't understand how fast she turn from hot to cold in just a short period
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Old Jun 16, 2018, 01:03 AM
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Thank you all, but the fact is I just don't understand how fast she turn from hot to cold in just a short period
You haven’t met in real life amd have been only talking for what a month? There is no hot or cold. She changed her mind and doesn’t want to talk anymore: busy, not up to it right now, interested in someone else instead, bad timing, doesn’t want to be talking to guys right now. It doesn’t matter why. It’s not like you are married and your spouse decided to not talk to you out of a blue.

You just have to let it go. Continue pursuing her despite her telling you to stop and not replying could become problematic
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Old Jun 16, 2018, 12:07 PM
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What you can do is let her go.

For whatever reason she does not want to be in a relationship. That is her choice and there is really nothing you can do about it.
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