 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
Magnate
Member Since Jan 2013
Location: Midwest
Posts: 2,456
11 86 hugs
given 
|
Jul 25, 2018 at 08:55 PM
#1
All he usually says is hi, I've ignored him over a month. Most ge says is hi how are you. Nothing but trying to weasel into my life. I wrote off the money he owes me. Should I just block him?
__________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P.  Daughter: 20  Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
|
 Reply With Quote
|
|
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
Member Since Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
(SuperPoster!)
11 4,168 hugs
given
|
Jul 25, 2018 at 09:53 PM
#2
Blocking is an option. Why not?
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Account Suspended
Member Since Jan 2018
Location: Tainan, Taiwan
Posts: 221
6 |
Jul 25, 2018 at 09:57 PM
#3
if done with him block him out of your life
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Magnate
Member Since Jul 2014
Location: limbo
Posts: 2,052
10 183 hugs
given
|
Jul 26, 2018 at 10:05 AM
#4
blocking is the best thing here. his texts are unwelcome and uninvited.
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,285
6 117 hugs
given |
Jul 26, 2018 at 10:21 AM
#5
Trying to get some context here; what exists in your lives that remains common together and hence necessary you remain in touch? Children? Pets? Friends and acquaintances? I am just saying that there are legitimate reasons two ex-partners would remain in communication. However, if such things don't exist then there is no reason to do so. I like the mention of blocking but before doing so I guess I would offer up explanation and an advisement I was going to take such steps. Doing so need not be difficult; a simple text of your own, "Look you are making me uncomfortable, I won't accept any more communication from you" should suffice.
Let us know what you decide. |
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Magnate
Member Since Jul 2014
Location: limbo
Posts: 2,052
10 183 hugs
given
|
Jul 26, 2018 at 10:25 AM
#6
I disagree that saying something in response is a good idea simply because he's texting "hi, how are you" likely to pull her into a conversation again. she has done well not to respond and I think he knows already that it's uninvited at this point due to that. You owe him no explanation as you're exes and considering the context that you've been just ignoring his texts and you dont' ask any questions regarding ties due to other circumstances that there are none. Outright blocking is likely still the best method.
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 22,903
(SuperPoster!)
9 1,295 hugs
given |
Jul 26, 2018 at 11:05 AM
#7
It’s been an ongoing saga about him texting and you not knowing what to do. Do you need a particular support about him texting or do you need advice or do you want us to tell you how to respond to him? Are you looking for something in particular here?
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Magnate
Member Since Jan 2013
Location: Midwest
Posts: 2,456
11 86 hugs
given
|
Jul 26, 2018 at 09:24 PM
#8
I blocked him.
__________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
 divine1966, mote.of.soul
|
 divine1966
|
|
Legendary Wise Elder
Community Liaison
Member Since Jul 2011
Location: Tennessee
Posts: 22,450
(SuperPoster!)
13 12.7k hugs
given
|
Jul 26, 2018 at 09:35 PM
#9
Quote:
Good for you !!!!!! __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
|
|
|
Reply With Quote
|
|
Aviza
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
