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Old Nov 11, 2018, 08:10 PM
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He broke up with me. He's been in a manic state for several months. Don't know if that's relevant here. He lives 50 miles North of me. He told me the only way I could see him is to drive. First I don't own a car. I did get my driver's license in my 20s. I could rent a car or use one of those car sharing services . One issue its been so long since I drove I feel I'm really rusty. Especially when it comes to parking.
I told him I could use public transportation and get very close to his apt. Then I'd call an Uber for the rest of the trip. He responded by saying "Its over" I'm not sure he knows about Uber. He's very old school. I felt upset, angry he didn't even respond to about me telling him about Uber . It looks like his mind is made up. I resent the fact he wouldn't even listen.l\
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 08:39 PM
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That's so mean. It's not your fault, and I hope you find someone who's willing to listen to you with an understanding, open-minded soul~
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 09:00 PM
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Good riddance. What a terrible person. Jeez. You deserve way better!
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 11:14 PM
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Thank you Maroon and Divine for your support and understanding. I am truly grateful. Some background I forgot to write. He received in the past month physical surgery for his back. So he's recuperating and can't move that well. IOW he can't travel. But still I thought Uber was a good idea imho.
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Old Nov 12, 2018, 12:23 AM
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Sounds rash on his part after you came up with a solution to your transportation dilemma. So sorry you are going through this.
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Old Nov 12, 2018, 05:44 AM
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Thank you Maroon and Divine for your support and understanding. I am truly grateful. Some background I forgot to write. He received in the past month physical surgery for his back. So he's recuperating and can't move that well. IOW he can't travel. But still I thought Uber was a good idea imho.
I don’t understand how taking Uber could be the reason for breaking up. Make no sense.
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Old Nov 12, 2018, 10:50 PM
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I don’t understand how taking Uber could be the reason for breaking up. Make no sense.
Doesn't make sense to me either. He didn't even let me explain. So unfair.
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Old Nov 12, 2018, 10:52 PM
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Sounds rash on his part after you came up with a solution to your transportation dilemma. So sorry you are going through this.
I appreciate your thoughts. Thank you for replying. Good knowing you care.
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Old Nov 12, 2018, 11:21 PM
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He sounds like a jerk. Or at least going through something. I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups are hard, but you'll get through this. I know that sounds cliche, but it's true. Spend time around people who treat you well and take this time to take care of yourself. Keep posting.
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Old Nov 13, 2018, 01:37 AM
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You might consider forgiving him someday for the terrible things he said and did while he was sick, because he's sick. Mania makes poor choices.
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