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Old Nov 08, 2018, 10:07 PM
FairyLeaf FairyLeaf is offline
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Apologies if this is in the wrong area.

I expressed to my partner something I enjoy receiving but he won't try it and i tried to explain why I enjoyed it.

Sometimes it comes up casually. He makes a joke similar to what I'd like to do, so I mention itll be fun. His reaction is negative.

How do I talk to my partner about trying this kink out? (it's not dangerous or harmful.)
We have talked about our boundaries of 100% off limits. This isnt one of them.

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Old Nov 08, 2018, 10:13 PM
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Sometimes it comes up casually. He makes a joke similar to what I'd like to do, so I mention itll be fun. His reaction is negative.
I think you need to respect his feelings about this. If they are negative they are negative.

If you are not ok with that maybe you need to find a partner more compatible with your own desires.
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