[Fuzzybear]

Maybe I hope for/expect too much.....

I had hoped that people in this forum would be interested in healthy communication. I still think that most are ..

I still hope that most are open to learning and “growing” .. as I am.

To me, healthy communication does not include multiple off topic replies, or an attempt to somehow “justify” abuse. Which a former “therapist” also did. he treated me as if I was his “bad object”

I try to reply to the OP with support.... when I post.....

I haven’t found a healthy therapist to bounce my ideas off. I have found therapists with an inability to listen. I have never been delusional. I was entangled in some transference/“attachment” with a couple of therapists irl (which they encouraged) - which I’m now free from.

I think I have learnt some things about relationships, including online communication, in all my years on this planet.

I don’t think I’m completely “wrong” about most of my ideas re what is healthy vs unhealthy communication.

Feel free to delete this post mods, if it’s not appropriate.

It’s MY opinion.

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm sorry you were triggered by some replies. I hope you'll stay here

[IceCreamKid]

I like what you said about healthy communication. I'm thinking being a therapist is a calling -- but maybe some in the field view it as a job. Big difference. Well, I hope we keep the healthy communication going here.

[healingme4me]

Having expectations of the types of behaviors that you want to surround yourself with is healthy and appropriate. Most certainly not too much to ask.