Deleted. I'm not a loser. I just feel hurt.

[healingme4me]

[Mopey]

So do I, most of the time.

[Bill3]

I agree: you aren't a loser.

I'm really sorry though that you are hurt.

(((((KnitChick)))))

Thank you everyone. It was Facebook related. It's not a big deal. It's just awkward and brought up those feelings for me. My friend, is friends with someone I've blocked on fb and I saw them interacting. It's just awkward., lol. Time to log out of Facebook, lol.

[NeedHaldol]

A made a major mistake on FB very recently and thought it was horrible for my career.


It ended up going away pretty much the next day.

I do not use my personal FB profile, I just use it for work.

[MickeyCheeky]

You're NOT a loser, KnitChick! I'm glad you've realized that by yourself. Unfortunately social media can really hurt us. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope you're feeling a bit better. Try to stay away from Facebook if you can. At least for a while. Try to do something fun and nice for yourself. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you

Thanks Mickey and Haldol. Yeah it's something I'm going to talk to my therapist about. Hugs to all.

[Open Eyes]

If you experienced something bad enough where you ended up blocking a person from interacting with you, that doesn't automatically mean that anyone that's friends with that person agrees with their bad behavior towards you. A lot of people have fb friends that are just casual friends that they don't block unless they personally experience something negative.

[downandlonely]

that's true. I am not close friends with a lot of my FB friends.

[mrsselig]

Awwww I feel like a loser most days too. I keep trying though. (hugs)

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by KnitChick

Deleted. I'm not a loser. I just feel hurt.

Yeah not a loser but do you want to talk about the hurt?

[s4ndm4n2006]

Originally Posted by KnitChick

Thank you everyone. It was Facebook related. It's not a big deal. It's just awkward and brought up those feelings for me. My friend, is friends with someone I've blocked on fb and I saw them interacting. It's just awkward., lol. Time to log out of Facebook, lol.

sorry didn't see this initially when I responded.

FB very well known for causing situations like this. Keep in mind people who are our friends almost invariably have a friend or two that we would not want to have as friends and even many are those we consider enemies. If I have a friend that is someone that doesn't like you or vice versa, it does not mean that our friendship would be anything less because of this third party.

Keep that in mind and yes, log off fb. Although I'd say forever, stepping away even for abit is a good idea.

Thanks OE, DL, mrsselig, and Sandman. Yeah I may definitely bring it up in therapy. But I feel ok about it now. Also about your second message, Sandman, yeah I know, logically. Lol. However it helps to be reminded of this too. Thanks.