[Aviza]

She got mad I was leading her on about the move called me a liar and kicked me out. Staying at hotel tonight, moving into apartment tomorrow. My case manager who is suppose to arrange stuff is off til Monday so I'll move what I can myself. Probably will pack a suitcase and grab a couple things to start.

God is with me I feel very peaceful. I swear my mom needs therapy. She makes things so hard. I wish she supported my move rather than fought me tooth and nail. But she is who she is. I felt too entwined with her and wanted to break free.

She used to threaten to kick me out when I wasn't complying with her. I finally had a place to sort of go. The apartment kindly adjusted my move in date. Now I'm on my own. Will have to go to food shelf to start. Glad I'm off work today.

[s4ndm4n2006]

probably a good thing this happened. now time to find your own way and make your own path.

[divine1966]

Glad that apartment was still available! Hang in there

[unaluna]

Omg. She just wants to be the decision-maker. Hope youre okay.

[happysobercrafter]

((((((((((((((((((((Aviza)))))))))))))))))))) I am glad you aren't homeless. Bless your heart! How difficult that must have been for you! I mean, I understand you have been wanting your own place, which is great, but your mom jumping the gun that way. JSMH

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm so sorry your mother has been so mean to you, Aviza I'm glad you have an home that you'll be able to move out to! Please don't give up! You'll finally be able to live on your own now, far away from her. You've got this, Aviza! Just try to hang on a little longer! We all know you can do this! Try to hang on as much as you can! I'm sure it will be worth it! Things CAN and WILL get better! Trust me when I say that! I promise you that! You're a strong, wonderful person! Believe in yourself! We all know that! Sending many hugs to you, Aviza!

[TheNightWhistle]

God that's terrible. I'm sorry that your relationship with your mother is so tense. At the same time, I'm happy that you are able to find a silver lining in this, and hey, living on your own might be the best thing to ever happen to you. You're free to do whatever you want, cook whatever you want, bring home whoever you want, whenever you want!

[healingme4me]

The timing was impeccable. At least you can move forward with your dreams that you've had for yourself in having your independence. And now the guilt trip about it can come to a screeching halt. Well, for now, I think your mother's push/pull on you is rather strong.

Some food pantry staples never hurt anyone. Who knows, it is spring cleaning season, lord knows what's been donated.

[Taylor27]

I am so sorry to hear that your mom kicked you out, hopefully your caseworker can help you get the things you need food ect. Hugs

[Aviza]

Thanks apt let me sign lease and move in early. Mom let me stay a night cause I don't have a bed or couch yet. Plan to move what I can move myself over the weekend. I'm happy.

[InsaneMind]

This honestly sounds like my mom. God im sorry.

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by Aviza

She got mad I was leading her on about the move called me a liar and kicked me out. Staying at hotel tonight, moving into apartment tomorrow. My case manager who is suppose to arrange stuff is off til Monday so I'll move what I can myself. Probably will pack a suitcase and grab a couple things to start.

God is with me I feel very peaceful. I swear my mom needs therapy. She makes things so hard. I wish she supported my move rather than fought me tooth and nail. But she is who she is. I felt too entwined with her and wanted to break free.

She used to threaten to kick me out when I wasn't complying with her. I finally had a place to sort of go. The apartment kindly adjusted my move in date. Now I'm on my own. Will have to go to food shelf to start. Glad I'm off work today.

I'm sorry that this has happened to you! My sister did the same to me.