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Old Apr 16, 2019, 03:43 AM
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Well, I wasn't looking fr any connection. I know that I am alone. Don't need anyone. Not sure why I try to talk to people. I should stick to creating my own peeople in my head to talk to. That way, if I need someone, then i can make it happen.
besides, I never get to talk about myself. Whenever i do, people disappear. But they tend to stay when I aske them tons of questions about them. But as soon as I get to something about me, conversation is over.
More reasons I hate talking to people. Conversations seem all fake to me.
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 08:03 AM
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Sorry that you are going though this

Is it here? Or another forum?
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 08:15 AM
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I'm so sorry for your awful experience and hope it's not here!

PC is great as are the staff only too glad to lend a helping hand and offer you support. If you need help, contact any one and I assure you, you will be given help.
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 09:44 AM
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Welcome to pc hugs, i hope you feel welcome here and part of the community.
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 03:16 PM
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Sorry that you are going though this

Is it here? Or another forum?
here and everywhere.
They can persecute me all they want though, not gonna live to someone else expectations to praise them as some sort of god that they think they are.
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 03:35 PM
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here and everywhere.
They can persecute me all they want though, not gonna live to someone else expectations to praise them as some sort of god that they think they are.


people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever

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Old Apr 16, 2019, 05:52 PM
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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it


I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever


best thing about this forum is you can vent all you want


no limits


no judgement


no harsh words
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 06:14 PM
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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever

best thing about this forum is you can vent all you want

no limits

no judgement

no harsh words
deep down i hate people
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 10:09 PM
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people can be so cruel sometimes. I'm so sorry you went through it

I hope you decide to stay here where you're wanted and we can certainly support you with what ever

best thing about this forum is you can vent all you want

no limits

no judgement

no harsh words
I third this
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Old Apr 16, 2019, 11:26 PM
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I third this
I think some people should pay for what they do to others.
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 04:38 AM
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I think some people should pay for what they do to others.


their are lots of bad people in the world

but deffenetely a lot of good ones
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 06:12 AM
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 07:49 AM
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their are lots of bad people in the world

but deffenetely a lot of good ones
Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?
I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 10:46 AM
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Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?

I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.
I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 03:29 PM
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Don't believe anyone is good. I think "good" is used for social reasons. Like whos the judge?
I do believe that everyone is capable to hurt other people.


their's a lot of truth to that.

I think anyone is capable of doing anything

anyone is capable of being really good, or anyone is capable of being really bad

guess a lot of it depends on circumstances and situations that person is put in

and if they choose to act in a certain way
example: anyone could punch someone

but maybe they choose not to do it
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 04:23 PM
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I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
ill google that and see whats it about
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Old Apr 17, 2019, 04:24 PM
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their's a lot of truth to that.

I think anyone is capable of doing anything

anyone is capable of being really good, or anyone is capable of being really bad

guess a lot of it depends on circumstances and situations that person is put in

and if they choose to act in a certain way
example: anyone could punch someone

but maybe they choose not to do it
I want to punch someone
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Old Apr 18, 2019, 11:06 AM
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I think that falls very well in line with Lao Tzu and the Art of War. Know Thyself, Know Thy Enemy.

It's ok to Trust Noone.
I think it’s ok to trust no one, it’s not a place I like to reside in though.

Know thyself and know thy “enemy” makes sense.
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Old Apr 18, 2019, 08:51 PM
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I think it’s ok to trust no one, it’s not a place I like to reside in though.


Know thyself and know thy “enemy” makes sense.
It truly does. It's ancient text that has transcended the ages. I was introduced to it in college by a friend of a friend pursuing the military life. It's a known tool for managers in leadership courses and it spoke to me at that point in time. Remains a steady presence on my bureau, the way a coffee table book would. I know another touted book that I'm only in the middle of is The Obstacle is the Way. That one isn't an ancient classic, but it has its points.
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