[Fuzzybear]

I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. I’m not doing ok.... I wish I wasn’t so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They don’t

[Open Eyes]

It sounds to me like you have too many people around you that are unhappy about themselves in some way and end up growling at you for it.

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

I stress him out when I talk to him. He needs a lot of alone time. I’m not doing ok.... I wish I wasn’t so (insert bad label) I wish I could sleep. I wish people irl liked me. They don’t

Maybe I am totally wrong about this but my POV is that he married you and has stayed with you so he must like or love you. Some people get more irritable as they get older. At least my husband and I have.

Try to think about what you need as much as what he needs. You have to have attitude if you want an equal partnership with your spouse. He gets you to leave him alone by being stressed. Sometimes people need stress to grow!

Hugs Fuzzy.

[Fuzzybear]

“I tried so hard to be somebody
You could be close to...”

[Open Eyes]

Thing is Fuzzy, not everyone can be receptive to that, not your fault.

[Fuzzybear]

“This has been a day to die for
Now the day is almost done ..”