How to cope with living near difficult people? Some people think their knowledge and way of life is more accepted by the masses. They believe they must intervene when they see something not in perfect order. They think they know how and why and what should be done, but don't understand when they intervene without grace, they are creating a negative cycle of abuse and violence that effects the daily life of many. How do you tell these people that although their way may demonstrate effective results, outcome and approach could be graceful! How do you stop a violent offender, whether that be psychological, verbal or physical abuse, to stop violating to get what they want?

I feel cornered. Please help

[Open Eyes]

You have to maintain your boundaries firmly with people like this. These kind of people look for a way to get in and take over and it's important you say "no" to them and walk away rather than allowing them to step in and take over.

[sarahsweets]

If someone is a violent offender than I would personally call the police if they didnt leave me alone.

[MamaJenn]

If you are in a position to walk away, please do. I have tried my best to remove difficult people from my life. If there is violence involved, I agree with Sarah that you should call the police. I hope you find peace soon.

Thank you for your replies. I wish I was in a position to walk away. Although, I would feel bad turning my back on this relationship, I know sometimes walking away is a better option. Also, police involvement is not an option. This is a psychological battle. Understanding financial hardship, I feel looking at the bigger picture and long-term goals can actually be more cost effective. But most people like to see immediate results. Also, many people feel better when they feel in control. Even if that means controlling other people. They focus on covert communication where my focus is on open conversation. We do not mesh but are in a situation where we must work together or not. IDK how not to impose but say " I am my own self, an individual, and as childish as this sounds, you are not the boss of me." I am on a healing path that will take time and nothing more.