[rdgrad15]

Has anyone realized when someone you don’t really talk to or even care about is suddenly absent, you or other people that may not talk or care about them wonder where they’re at? It is one thing if it is required of them to be at a certain place, like at work, but they aren’t where they are supposed to be. In this case, it is understandable.

But in situations where it really doesn’t matter, I noticed sometimes people will wonder where someone is at even though they don’t talk to them. For me, if I don’t care about someone or really don’t talk to them or know them, I’m not going to care about where they’re at. Is it just out of curiosity? Always just wondered that.

[Icedgem]

Well to me that says whoever is asking is those questions is actually interested?

Maybe in a not so obvious way, maybe the person who is doing to asking likes to know even though they may show they don't 'care' if that makes sense

[rdgrad15]

Originally Posted by Icedgem

Well to me that says whoever is asking is those questions is actually interested?

Maybe in a not so obvious way, maybe the person who is doing to asking likes to know even though they may show they don't 'care' if that makes sense

Yeah true. That’s possible.

Originally Posted by rdgrad15

For me, if I don’t care about someone or really don’t talk to them or know them, I’m not going to care about where they’re at.

same here

Originally Posted by Icedgem

Well to me that says whoever is asking is those questions is actually interested?

Maybe in a not so obvious way, maybe the person who is doing to asking likes to know even though they may show they don't 'care' if that makes sense

Yes. That's also a possibility.

[hvert]

This seems like something I might do because I was curious. Even if I don't particularly care for someone, if I am used to seeing them in a certain context and suddenly don't, I will wonder about that.

[rdgrad15]

Originally Posted by ennie

same here

Yeah exactly.

[rdgrad15]

Originally Posted by ennie

Yes. That's also a possibility.

Yeah possible.

[rdgrad15]

Originally Posted by hvert

This seems like something I might do because I was curious. Even if I don't particularly care for someone, if I am used to seeing them in a certain context and suddenly don't, I will wonder about that.

Yeah true. I can see how that can happen.