[beauflow]

I dont want to go over it all over again.

I just want my heart back, I want to take it back.

What do you do to feel like you've taken your heart back?

I suppose I could say, continue to work on myself and give myself attention and love...
Perhaps to not regret and see growth

But right now I feel ... it was never cherished by the ones it was given to, let alone did they appreciated how fragile it was... and I want it back

[unaluna]

Sounds like it would make a good country song

Its a good thought. How to make yourself whole again.

[Quarter life]

Broken things have sharp edges. It takes a while to smooth them down again.

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm so sorry, beauflow What you've said was very wise. It is important to work on ourselves. I'm so sorry you're not getting the love and support you need and deserve. Just be kind to yourself. it takes time to heal but it can be done. Just don't let other people bring you down. You have value and you are important no matter what other people say and do. Just keep repeating that to yourself because it is true. You are important and you matter. Feel free to PM me ANYTIME if you want. We'll be here to support you and NOT to hurt you. THAT'S A PROMISE! Please be kind to yourself. Stay safe. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, beauflow, and to ALL the people you love and who love you!

I say... when you feel broken, or when your heart is broken, the best way to get it back is to nurture it in every way possible. By that I mean, nurture the friendships that you cherish and the family relationships that are in tact and healthy..... give of yourself to others, be kind to strangers along your path, it will fill your heart..... do things for yourself that help you to feel good... write in your journal, if you have one, sing songs, dance, exercise, take walks, watch feel good movies, read a good book, go on a nature walk, go to a flower store and smell all the lovely flowers, buy yourself something nice, if you can, even if it's small.... take a long hot bath..... read inspirational quotes and poems...... read inspirational articles about how to heal a broken heart..... give back to yourself and fill yourself UP. Fill yourself up as much as you can, on a daily basis.... I hope this helps a little bit. Healing will happen.. you can get your heart back, don't worry. MASSIVE HUGS!!!!!!!!

[divine1966]

I don’t really understand concept of broken heart but I understand emotional pain that wouldn’t go away, for me it’s usually grief. I think the only way to heal it is to give it time. Time heals

[mugwort2]

IMHO this is the time to work on yourself , to nurture yourself. Its time for some serious me time. By this I mean to understand there is still value in you. Not to dismiss your feeliings of heartbreak but not to let these feelings be the only way to define yourself. Nourish your inner soul, your inner peace. Take time out for you.

[beauflow]

Thanks everyone that replied, and for the hugs and all.. thank you all for your comments and constructive and thoughtful replies. It helped a lot to read.
Thanks again,