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Nov 12, 2019, 11:13 PM
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Every time we speak, I grow more and more in love with him. I don't like to confess feelings unless I was sure it was mutual, so even though when I'm with him I'm screaming inside, "I love you! Please let me be your baby girl!" I hold back because I'm not certain he feels the same way. My cat made it all the better. I invited him over for dinner, and my cat was patiently begging for me to turn the fire on as she always does (her favorite thing in the world), so when he came over, I told her, "Okay, Evy, here's your fire" and I turned it on. She looked at the fire, she looked at him, she looked at the fire, and then she looked at him and I swear to god she nearly screamed his name and RAN to him and nearly JUMPED in his arms and rubbed up against him and gave him so much love. She's never reacted that way towards any male, ever. So that seals the feelings even further.
We had a great time last night. We had a very long discussion, mostly about work and school, but a lot of it was fun stuff, too. The problem is, romance isn't going to happen overnight and that's hard. I don't like beating around the bush let alone waiting, and for him, it will take time. I really don't like to wait. I want to be in love, and I want to be his baby girl and to be loved by hi,. So when is it going to happen? What will he see in me that I see in him? *sigh* I'll be picking my metaphorical daisy, wondering if he loves me, or he loves me not. 
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#2
Nov 13, 2019, 03:53 PM
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It is encouraging that he came over for dinner. Take it slowly. Build that friendship.
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Nov 13, 2019, 06:55 PM
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He swept me off my feet today (literally!!!) and it was so wonderful. He went in to hug but then he lifted me and held me close a lot longer than usual. And his smile. His smile was different today. Appreciative, almost like really seeing me for the first time. Oh, I'm a sappy noodle right now! ^__^
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#4
Nov 13, 2019, 08:03 PM
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I’d say if he had zero interest in you, he’d likely find excuses not to go to dinner at your house. Keep building that friendship. Take it slow.
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Nov 13, 2019, 09:35 PM
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But how do I take it slow and build the friendship yet also pursue him romantically and keep sending him signals? I've never been one to take things slow for anything.
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