[josephinee]

does anyone else get in a relationship with someone and then randomly for no reason they just start to get very annoyed at the little things the person does and starts to hate them once commitment comes into the picture??? if so how do you fix it?

[~Christina]

If a person isn’t ready/willing to commit there honestly isn’t anything you can do. Just end tings and move forward with your life.

Sorry this is happening

[divine1966]

Sometimes it’s not because of commitment issue but because after dating person for awhile they start noticing things that aren’t working out and realizing that the person isn’t right match. I doubt they hate the other person, more like they maybe want to end it but don’t know how to. You can’t change it. People are either into you or they aren’t. I recommend to move on and not try to change anyone. There is someone out there for you

Originally Posted by josephinee

does anyone else get in a relationship with someone and then randomly for no reason they just start to get very annoyed at the little things the person does and starts to hate them once commitment comes into the picture??? if so how do you fix it?

You can't fix it. Sounds like this person you're with doesn't want to seriously commit to a relationship with you, so is knit-picking and starting fights so that you will break up with them. Men do this all the time.

I mean, you could call this person out, tell them, you notice that they are saying things intentionally to start fights to distance themselves so you'd like to know why they are doing it (you already know why though). See if they are honest with you. They may keep deflecting because they are weak minded, so be prepared to go in circles and get nowhere if this person is emotionally immature (which it sounds like they are, if they are starting fights for no reason).