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Old Jan 08, 2020, 06:36 AM
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Been with my bf for 1.5 years and know his daughter for about a year. Got off to a great start, she was friendly and always happy to see me when I came over. Recently, I have felt like she dislikes me or is threatened by me and maybe fears I will steal her dad from her. Bf's mum bought mugs for me, herself, bf's daughter, bf and bf's brother and each of our mugs had initial of our first name. For example, my first name begins with 'R' so my mug had 'R' on it. While getting ready for swimming, I noticed she switched my mug and her mug. My mug was next to her dad's originally but she switched them so that hers was next to her dad's and I asked why she did this and she said she wanted to be next to her dad. Other times she is nice but sometimes I feel she doesn't like me. I would appreciate some advice please!
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Old Jan 08, 2020, 10:03 PM
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How old is she ?
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Old Jan 15, 2020, 06:38 AM
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Hi Christina
She is 10 but turning 11 this year.
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Old Jan 16, 2020, 12:25 AM
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Ahh perfect age to worry about her father loving you more than her.

Just continue to love her and maybe do some stuff together together , I’ll say pedicure because literally if I was rich I’d have one every week lol

Her Dad also needs to make some special time together.

And lots of family time together.
Good luck
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Old Jan 16, 2020, 04:55 AM
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Hey @lowselfesteem92 how old is the daughter?
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Hi all.
Been with my bf for 1.5 years and know his daughter for about a year. Got off to a great start, she was friendly and always happy to see me when I came over. Recently, I have felt like she dislikes me or is threatened by me and maybe fears I will steal her dad from her. Bf's mum bought mugs for me, herself, bf's daughter, bf and bf's brother and each of our mugs had initial of our first name. For example, my first name begins with 'R' so my mug had 'R' on it. While getting ready for swimming, I noticed she switched my mug and her mug. My mug was next to her dad's originally but she switched them so that hers was next to her dad's and I asked why she did this and she said she wanted to be next to her dad. Other times she is nice but sometimes I feel she doesn't like me. I would appreciate some advice please!
Thank you
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Old Jan 16, 2020, 10:07 PM
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Hey @lowselfesteem92 how old is the daughter?



OP said 10 ... almost 11
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Old Jan 17, 2020, 01:18 AM
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OP said 10 ... almost 11


Duh. I missed that !
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Old Jan 17, 2020, 02:06 AM
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Duh. I missed that !


I do it a lot ! lol
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