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Old Jan 13, 2020, 10:33 PM
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So I asked a girl out for coffee, we've known each other for a while, we tried and showed interest in dating but never actually got round to it. Then when I asked her she simply just said "don't let me down, others have"
I don't know how to comprehend it. What does that mean?
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Old Jan 13, 2020, 10:37 PM
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Sounds like she’s been hurt in the past and is asking you not to hurt her.
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Old Jan 13, 2020, 11:46 PM
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If you want to date her then date her. don’t blow off dates or play nonsense games by not communicating on the phone , talking or texting.

She’s being very honest with you so show her same respect
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Old Jan 14, 2020, 04:08 AM
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^^^ Also, I think you should just ask her what she meant by that remark. Just ask.
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Old Jan 15, 2020, 08:28 AM
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It sounds a little needy.
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Old Jan 15, 2020, 03:10 PM
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As it's just for coffee, it sounds like she is simply asking you to show up. In other words, don't stand her up.
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