[Aviza]

He brought me lunch, flowers, and asked me to be his girlfriend. Says he loves me alot, I'm beautiful. He's happy with me but I have to promise no more guys, which I did. Problem I didn't expect this signed up for a dating site this morning, and don't know how to cancel.

I also don't know how to tell people. Because he's muslim they hate him and he's a wonderful guy. So sweet. Brings out a better side of me and I love him.

[Yaowen]

Hi Aviza,

I wish I had some wisdom to share with you but sadly I don't. I hope you find what works best for you so that you can have peace of mind and joy of living. You deserve those things!

[Aviza]

I contacted the company and deleted the profile. I'm happy, trying to heed their advice but the heart wants what it wants. I've gotten lots of advice.

[divine1966]

Who are these people who hate someone because he is Muslim? Jeez...really?

[Aviza]

My mom, my boss, patients. All say be weary.

[mng36]

Hey!
Love whoever you love regardless of who they are and how your friends view him. Follow your heart and nothing else. If you love him, then I say commit and do it for real

[divine1966]

Your patients and boss have no business to comment on who you date. Why are you telling patients? They don’t need to know your personal life.

Mom will get over it

[Open Eyes]

Truth is, you have to be careful no matter what race/color another person is, toxic people pop up in all races and cultures and religions and political preferences or classes.

Sometimes the worst enemy is right in one's own family.

[Aviza]

I'm happy and in love. He's so thoughtful, wonderful, complimentary. Just have to figure out how to see each other.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by Aviza

I'm happy and in love. He's so thoughtful, wonderful, complimentary. Just have to figure out how to see each other.

If you are both single I don’t see why it’s difficult to see each other?

[Aviza]

We work late, go to bed early, he has kids in college but at home, and I have visits with my daughter, and my mother. Usually i push my mom aside because she monopolizes my time.

She thinks she gets all my days off. Right now hexand I see each other once a week. He tried to add a day this week, had an opening, but that was a daughter visit day. That only gets adjusted if there's a real reason to not for a date.

He only dates me in the afternoon, not at night. Probably because of his prayer time or something. Night is when I'm available. Afternoons are planned out.

[divine1966]

I had a long term relationship with Muslim. Praying won’t stop them from dating. By night you mean evening? He won’t date you in the evening? I’d do background check as he might be married. Or hiding something else

When I’ve met my husband we lived two hours apart and he worked nights and I worked days and we made it work. You can make it work BUT having kids at home complicates things. Once a week is fine. That’s not unusual.

[Aviza]

Mom says she'll be more accepting of him. That is like a miracle! I used my dbt skills and talked to her.

He makes time for me. Throughout his day. He's really a sweet guy.

[BabyLoves]

Make time in each other's lives for each other. Make an investment in one another's future,

[KMO31]

Don't listen to anyone else. If you're both happy then be happy, you only need yourselves.