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Feb 11, 2020 at 01:48 PM
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Hello to everyone!Bd and now dealing with unrequited love ,I know it sounds stupid but cant get over it, have lost 10 k my mania triggered, I am in a 20 year relationship which I dont want to ruin.I have read a couple of articles some doctors are actually saying it is a mental disorder. How to get over it?I love my partner
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Feb 12, 2020 at 03:32 AM
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Hey @Loreta: I wanted to share this definition to make sure I knew what you were sharing about. Is this love for your partner? Or are you talking about one-sided love for someone else while being with your partner?
Unrequited love - Wikipedia Quote:
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Feb 12, 2020 at 05:36 AM
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Is the relationship actually over on his part? I think if the relationship is dead from his part, then let go, get on with your life, struggle with the memories, sure, but do everything in your power to shake free from the grip of this false love. There's no love for you, it's over lady. Face everyday with the idea of forgetting - and one day you will. You'll be free. Keep going! Put it all behind you. |
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Feb 12, 2020 at 06:35 AM
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I'm thinking maybe the love is for someone else, and you have lost weight stressing about it?
Try not to feel guilty. That will only make it worse. These things happen. Here is a Wendy Cope poem: Two Cures for Love Wendy Cope 1. Don’t see him. Don’t phone or write a letter. 2. The easy way: get to know him better. |
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Feb 12, 2020 at 06:36 AM
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Forgive the jokey poem. But zero contact is the only way, unfortunately.
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Feb 12, 2020 at 02:21 PM
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If you want to make it work with the current partner, you have to be all-in with him and move on from the old flame.
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