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Old May 13, 2020, 05:08 PM
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Warning: I sometimes write what it’s in my mind in a very...it’s hard for me to be clear when opening my heart. Not only for me but also because of the people I may be talking about.
In the end, what it’s of your concern? People in your circle, right? But, I don’t like to talk about them. Noone is perfect. So, it’s hard for me to express myself clearly.

Well, on the topic.
It takes me an enormous effort to set boundaries and stand up for them, especially when I consider the person a friend, a significant order or someone in my circle.
I know they have crossed my boundaries but I’m not sure if I set them well. Only an affection word on their part and they won me again.

I always think everything is possible and that people understand each other with communication, no matter what have happened. There’s always a place for affection and understanding.
I think that I’m being very naive and that reality is one thing and another is what I believe.
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Old May 13, 2020, 05:11 PM
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I've been accused of being naive and too trusting of others as well. I believe in second chances, but if you do establish boundaries, and someone continually breaks them it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.
Thanks for this!
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Old May 13, 2020, 05:11 PM
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Very true!
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Old May 13, 2020, 05:14 PM
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But, what if I get wrong. What if this person deserves a third opportunity?
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