Met another online man who is single and lives far away again!

bpforever1 · Aug 09, 2020 at 03:43 AM

He is ok. I am realizing he spends half of his time exercising and staying in shape though. He looks like a male model. I like him but when we speak he can't talk much English so we just smile a lot. I think he is great-looking but know that this type of relationship is rather superficial and vapid. But, he is nice. We are both poor and have this is common. But, otherwise, I am wondering what is going to keep us together. He has many women who come on to him. So, I don't know what he sees in me except that I look young for my age and am nice too. I am not sure that smiling and looking good are going to keep us together but at least we can be friends.

Aug 09, 2020 at 06:20 AM

He has a summer home but does not have the economic means to get married?

Have Hope · Aug 09, 2020 at 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by bpforever1

He is ok. I am realizing he spends half of his time exercising and staying in shape though. He looks like a male model. I like him but when we speak he can't talk much English so we just smile a lot. I think he is great-looking but know that this type of relationship is rather superficial and vapid. But, he is nice. We are both poor and have this is common. But, otherwise, I am wondering what is going to keep us together. He has many women who come on to him. So, I don't know what he sees in me except that I look young for my age and am nice too. I am not sure that smiling and looking good are going to keep us together but at least we can be friends.

If he cannot speak much English what’s the point here? Smiling a lot on a video call can’t go too far. And if you’re both broke, how would you even meet? It does sound shallow... meaning not enough to keep it going. I’ve found that guys who work out a ton are superficial and are really into their looks.

How old is he to still be living with his mother? You’re independent. I would think you’d want a guy who is also independent and self sufficient.

bpforever1 · Aug 10, 2020 at 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Have Hope

If he cannot speak much English what’s the point here? Smiling a lot on a video call can’t go too far. And if you’re both broke, how would you even meet? It does sound shallow... meaning not enough to keep it going. I’ve found that guys who work out a ton are superficial and are really into their looks.

How old is he to still be living with his mother? You’re independent. I would think you’d want a guy who is also independent and self sufficient.

He is my age. So, he is not young. He writes English ok it's just that he can't speak it too well. He sent me videos of him exercising. And, I believe this is how he spends half of his time. He is very laid back otherwise. He is ok. I don't mind him. It's better to look at him and his physical beauty than some old man who is out of shape and haggard. He is quiet and speaks softly. He is charming at times with his winks and smiles. I think sometimes it is ok to just be handsome and smile rather than debating about some esoteric theme which nobody cares about anyways. He is really handsome and he knows this. He really works out a lot to the point of being obsessed with fitness. I am opposite and realize he likes me because I compliment him and make him feel good about himself. I really don't mind him but know if things get serious and deep, then I will be surprised!! lol, this world is superficial and people judge others initially on appearance. It is sad but true. For now, he pleases my eye and is not a nuisance so I really don't mind him.

Have Hope · Aug 10, 2020 at 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bpforever1

He is my age. So, he is not young. He writes English ok it's just that he can't speak it too well. He sent me videos of him exercising. And, I believe this is how he spends half of his time. He is very laid back otherwise. He is ok. I don't mind him. It's better to look at him and his physical beauty than some old man who is out of shape and haggard. He is quiet and speaks softly. He is charming at times with his winks and smiles. I think sometimes it is ok to just be handsome and smile rather than debating about some esoteric theme which nobody cares about anyways. He is really handsome and he knows this. He really works out a lot to the point of being obsessed with fitness. I am opposite and realize he likes me because I compliment him and make him feel good about himself. I really don't mind him but know if things get serious and deep, then I will be surprised!! lol, this world is superficial and people judge others initially on appearance. It is sad but true. For now, he pleases my eye and is not a nuisance so I really don't mind him.

Who sends videos of themselves exercising? How is that even remotely interesting? And you've mentioned how handsome he is a lot.

Have fun I guess.

We are in a pandemic, so I get it if you're bored and lonely. I do get that.

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Anonymous44430 Guest Posts: n/a	Aug 09, 2020 at 06:20 AM #2 He has a summer home but does not have the economic means to get married?
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