[Aviza]

Mom in hospital for a few days. Should i tell my brother. He'd probably rejoice mom hasn't had time to change the trust I'm not in but he is. She threatened to take him out said for months she'd put me back in hasn't happened yet but I'm the one at her beacon call.

She stepped on glass a 3rd time her foot isn't healing has a cyst on it. Doctors say. She's diabetic. Now i have to take her dog. They gave her time to run home gather meds, dog, and has to get back to hospital.

They got in a huge fight she called him a liar which he is and he's holding a grudge. Said he'd do all this stuff for her backed out, she has to hire a handyman. Also said he'd take care of her in old age he said he never said that. Which i heard him say. So she's angry he's angry and neither will concede. His daughter's birthday party is this weekend and grandma isn't invited, i am. And I'm stuck in the middle.

[sarahsweets]

What do you mean by her "taking him out and putting you in"?

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by sarahsweets

What do you mean by her "taking him out and putting you in"?

Trust. Mom kept taking one of her kids name out of a the trust, then putting it back in etc Dramatic

[Open Eyes]

It's unfortunate but the mother is using her trust as a form of emotional blackmail where if you don't behave the way she expects she threatens to take you out of her Will/Trust.

[Prycejosh1987]

Someone has to draw a line in the sand and be humble enough to make the first move. I have fallen out with close family before, but i always the one that makes the first move, and there is no shame in that.