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Location: Los Angeles
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Really swooned for this girl I met online 3 weeks ago. We have so much in common that I couldn't believe, because I haven't had too much luck finding people like me at all! lol! We message each other, and she does give me detailed info and asks about myself as well. She doesn't blow me off and when I write to her she usually write me back soon and doesn't give me short sweet answers like, "lol" or "yeah." But I can't help but feel that she is probably being nice to me, because I've noticed that I always have to initiate conversation first I haven't talked to her in couple weeks because I was waiting for her to message me first which never happened. I want to start talking to her again but I'm doubtful. I would think if she WAS interested that she'd message me out of the blue in last couple weeks how my day has been and nothing. I guess to just let it go? Part of me doesn't want to and I'd rather just ask her out over text and get a flat out rejection to get the real crystal clear of things, but I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Any advice?Let it go?
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RoxanneToto
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I'd have discarded her. If you do all the work, what is the point of this entire "relationship" you two have? It does not work like that. I'd say if I you give three "hellos", you should get at least one in return. You can't win any prizes on your own, we need the other party to play the game too Best of luck.
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I can’t speak for all women, but if I’ve been interested in anyone in the past I’ve initiated a lot of the conversations. It doesn’t sound like she’s very interested, especially if she hasn’t spoken to you for a couple of weeks. It always sucks when you like someone and get blown off like this, but I wouldn’t waste any more time waiting around for her.
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Magnate
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Rather than guessing, why not tell her how you feel? This way you know for sure.
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Location: UK
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Its best to take the risk and get a definitive answer, rather than be doubtful and play it safe.
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