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Hi there im hoping for some advice on how to accept this i was seeing my ex for 5 months in that time he text me all day every day never missed a hour go by texting how he misses me and loves me and all our plans for the future he sent me poems everynight before i slept of love for me so as you can imagine i was so happy....until his ex contacted me to tell me he was only out of prison for assaulting her with a knife he stabbed her arm and threatened to chop her head off he was in jail for 8 months for that then another ex told me he beat her up then another told me he mentally abused her his son mailed me too telling me h beat him up when he was 16....then i heard he has had sex with men also.so i decided to confront him when i did he blocked me and updated his status on Facebook to in a new relationship obviously with a woman he was seeing behind my back....im not left with no closure or if i ever meant anything to him,his ex said he is a narrsitist and has a history to this behaviour...im left heartbroken
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I think you should thank your lucky stars that you are not with him. All of those things if true make him a dangerous man. It sounds like he was loved bombing you which sometimes is a precursor to abuse .
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You may have to move on and it actually may be better for you if you do.
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