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#341
Yeah staying on the lease after divorce is absolute no no. No wonder your lawyer said no to it. If that even happened. Your husband is probably lying. You suing him won’t work because your credit will be ruined regardless. Yes car might have to be returned to a dealer and he might have to get a different car. How he is going to do it is not your concern. Plenty of people get their own cars. Bankrupt or not.
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#342
Yeah staying on the lease after divorce is absolute no no. No wonder your lawyer said no to it. If that even happened. Your husband is probably lying. You suing him won’t work because your credit will be ruined regardless. Yes car might have to be returned to a dealer and he might have to get a different car. How he is going to do it is not your concern. Plenty of people get their own cars. Bankrupt or not.
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#343
He tried to claim to me today that there is NO way to get my name off the lease and that he cannot refinance the car. I called Honda myself yet AGAIN just after he tells me this. Honda gave me three options: refinance the car through a lender; trade in for another car; or sell the car. The current account needs to be closed in order for my name to come off the lease. Once again he is BSing me, giving me the run around and doesn't want to do any legwork to help. SO I just threatened that IF he does not pursue any of the above options, that I will go to his workplace tomorrow to take the car away and sell it myself.
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#344
Why two posts? Sorry
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#345
he is now putting up ALL sorts of roadblocks on the car lease.
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#346
He is a liar
When my husband got divorced his ex was ordered to take her name off his car. She had nothing to do with a car as she wasn’t even working but she was on there as a second driver. She refused just to be nasty. We were already together and she still had her name on it. My husband had to tell her that he’ll have to get courts involved again as she is in contempt to get her to take her name off. Only then she did Court will order for him to get your name off |
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#347
No court on this planet will demand that divorced ex spouse keeps other person on a car lease
If it cannot be resolved, judge will order for a car to be sold. Courts don’t care what he can’t afford. Not their business or concern. |
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#348
I am practically in tears. He is refusing to do any of the possibilities. He wants HIS way and he's going to end up getting his way. I have no choice in the matter, unless I physically took the car from him to sell it.
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#349
And yes, I believe no court will allow this.
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#350
You need to talk to your lawyer. See what they say you need to do. Don’t do anything drastic until you talk to a lawyer
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#351
He may not do anything until it is a court order & even then he may not but at least then you can hold him in contempt of court. Messy, yes but sometimes it becomes the only way when they are jerks
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#352
Eskie is right. And I can’t believe he claims there is no way to get your name off. What a liar. There are plenty of ways to do that.
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My now ex was a jerk when I first tried to file for divorce when I lived with him in Calif.....everything was "I'm not doing this or not doing that" I gave up & just left him but he did screw me on the house but he screwed himself even more cause he ended up with nothing & I have my beautiful farm thanks to inheritance I wouldn't let him touch. __________________ Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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#355
He's just being a stubborn a-s-s. He doesn't want to lift a finger to help me out. Maybe this will come down to a court order.
I honestly cannot deal with this anymore. He's being such an asshole about it. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes Last edited by Have Hope; Jan 08, 2021 at 08:12 AM.. |
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#356
I can’t believe he wants you to keep him on a lease after the divorce. That’s unheard of. People do it sometimes if there are young kids to be driven around to help with that but what’s on the planet! He shouldn’t even dream of using EX wife as a co-signer
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#357
He wants what he wants. He cares only about himself.
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#359
Some people are just asinine. My husband’s ex caused so much trouble. The last stint was to use our address to get auto insurance quotes from different insurance companies when she was technically homeless or living in slums. It was years after their divorce and she knew we were married. She certainly never lived here neither in our place lol or in our area but more so she always lived two-three hours away. She just wanted to use our address because we live in affluent suburbs and insurance is way less than in a bad area. My husband had panic attack when we found out
Don’t mean to hijack but some people are just unbelievable. They don’t want to give up meal ticket so they cause problems to their exes. |
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#360
He is still arguing with me over leaving him. He's going to be a pain in the *** to divorce. He trying to now blame me for hating him, for not wanting anything to do with him, for my anger at him, for not trusting him, and for not trying. Of course I am to blame. Now it's all my fault. Of course.
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