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Default Jan 12, 2021 at 07:09 AM
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Missing my ex. Anyone else have an ex they love, but just dont feel it's right? They love me, they want commitment, but I cant.
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Default Jan 12, 2021 at 08:07 AM
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Stick with your true feelings, stay true to yourself and what you want, and don't let the person convince you otherwise. My husband pushed our relationship on me, and I allowed it to happen when my gut feelings were that something was wrong. And man, was something terribly wrong and now I sorely regret the relationship and my decision to date him. All I can say is stay true to yourself and stay true to your gut that it's not the right relationship for you.

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Default Jan 12, 2021 at 11:32 AM
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If you love them and can't be with them, the most loving thing you can do is what you are doing i.e. *not* being with them.

This way both them, and you, can be with someone who is able to reciprocate the love each one feels for the other.
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Default Jan 20, 2021 at 10:17 AM
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Stick with your true feelings, stay true to yourself and what you want, and don't let the person convince you otherwise. My husband pushed our relationship on me, and I allowed it to happen when my gut feelings were that something was wrong. And man, was something terribly wrong and now I sorely regret the relationship and my decision to date him. All I can say is stay true to yourself and stay true to your gut that it's not the right relationship for you.

Can I ask if you have found someone else?
I keep rethinking maybe I do want him back and deciding if I should go back. It's almost torture being so indecisive.
I've at least enjoyed my freedoms.
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Default Jan 20, 2021 at 10:18 AM
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If you love them and can't be with them, the most loving thing you can do is what you are doing i.e. *not* being with them.

This way both them, and you, can be with someone who is able to reciprocate the love each one feels for the other.
Yeah I agree with you which is why I'm in this position in the first place.
It's so confusing though
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