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Default Jun 11, 2021 at 06:33 AM
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I understand. Well, I think it is ok I meet this new man next week. I feel ok and much better realizing I got rid of a user. I have not met many men yet and only started dating a few months before. This will be my fourth man for this year. I know of others who serial date. I don't do this. I did take a few days off and was a month off the dating app. This man is busy though so we will see if our schedules align. At least, I'm getting better at honing in on men who I am really interested in rather than just hear from. I will take a break from this new man if it does not work out. I was feeling rather tired and now am feeling better. I feel a bit intimidated by this new man since he is very successful and nice. So, we shall see. I will be myself and not be insecure about myself.
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So, I did not go out with this supposedly successful man. He never wanted to meet- a scammer? So, I got rid of him.

I met some other men. I met one whom I like but don't know if it will work out. He is a former soccer player- nice build and tall. So, I am attracted to him. But, he is busy with work. He has to support his child from a previous marriage. So, I am going to wait to see what happens by taking it one day at a time.

Otherwise, I have stopped dating others. I met a few men and this last one is the former soccer player. I don't like the dating scene. It seems to be rife with men who want sex upfront. Yes, they may take me out for dinner but they want dessert.

I will be alright I believe. At least, one of the men wants to be chat friends. He wants sex too but likes to talk. We never had sex and met just once.

I am not going to push it with the former soccer player. He is busy so I don't need to pressure him in seeing me with his busy schedule if he does not want to. But, we are texting and getting along fine.

I must have liked the supposed executive manager man since I had mixed emotions about him. But, now, I am doing fine without him.
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So, I did not go out with this supposedly successful man. He never wanted to meet- a scammer? So, I got rid of him.

I met some other men. I met one whom I like but don't know if it will work out. He is a former soccer player- nice build and tall. So, I am attracted to him. But, he is busy with work. He has to support his child from a previous marriage. So, I am going to wait to see what happens by taking it one day at a time.

Otherwise, I have stopped dating others. I met a few men and this last one is the former soccer player. I don't like the dating scene. It seems to be rife with men who want sex upfront. Yes, they may take me out for dinner but they want dessert.

I will be alright I believe. At least, one of the men wants to be chat friends. He wants sex too but likes to talk. We never had sex and met just once.

I am not going to push it with the former soccer player. He is busy so I don't need to pressure him in seeing me with his busy schedule if he does not want to. But, we are texting and getting along fine.

I must have liked the supposed executive manager man since I had mixed emotions about him. But, now, I am doing fine without him.
I have heard this from many women on the dating sites. It seems the atmosphere is like that. There must be plenty of women willing to have sex up front, otherwise the men wouldn’t think that’s going to happen. It’s very unfortunate. I feel for you.

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Default Jun 15, 2021 at 04:16 PM
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The former soccer player just sends me texts about how he is doing which is nice. I am extremely attracted to him since he has not only a nice build but also is very polite. He is sweet. He said he would see me again when I met him. So, with his words, I am waiting for him.

I'm hoping for the best.

The other chat buddy is nice too. He gives me dating advice.

I met some frogs too but got rid of them.

So, everything is going ok for now.

I really hope I meet the former soccer player again. He says he is not married. He has his own online store so is quite busy. I will just send him greetings each morning and that is it. No need to push it.

Otherwise, I am doing fine. I am so relieved to have gotten off the dating app. I had a few more men lined up after the soccer player but they were not my type and so I turned them down politely. I just told them I found someone I liked. They took it well.

So, hopefully, this time I and the former soccer players get along and don't use each other. We shall see.
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The former soccer player just sends me texts about how he is doing which is nice. I am extremely attracted to him since he has not only a nice build but also is very polite. He is sweet. He said he would see me again when I met him. So, with his words, I am waiting for him.

I'm hoping for the best.

The other chat buddy is nice too. He gives me dating advice.

I met some frogs too but got rid of them.

So, everything is going ok for now.

I really hope I meet the former soccer player again. He says he is not married. He has his own online store so is quite busy. I will just send him greetings each morning and that is it. No need to push it.

Otherwise, I am doing fine. I am so relieved to have gotten off the dating app. I had a few more men lined up after the soccer player but they were not my type and so I turned them down politely. I just told them I found someone I liked. They took it well.

So, hopefully, this time I and the former soccer players get along and don't use each other. We shall see.
Greeting mornings? You don’t need to send him greeting mornings. Why for? You first have to establish a communication with him and he with you. And let’s see what happens.
If you send him greeting mornings, he’s gonna think that you are over heels for him.

A funny site note: A soccer player!!! Have you seen his pic, yet? My imagination is taking me now to Paolo Sousa, lol, old capitan of Portuguese soccer team. 😍

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I already met him in person and we are on social media. He is 182 cm and has a nice build. I like him much. He is polite too. He now owns his own online store.
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In person? I didn’t know it. I thought it was all online so far.
Cool!

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My imagination is taking me now to Paolo Sousa, lol, old capitan of Portuguese soccer team. 😍
He only looks good though. As of this moment he's the worst coach in Polish football history
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We met again. He told me about himself. He is nice and sweet. He said he would return to meet me again. So far, it is going well. He has a kid and is working hard to pay for his upkeep. He also has his own store which keeps him busy. I think we are heading in the right direction. I will take it one day at a time. I am in no rush to do anything. I was happy he decided to meet me again. All smiles!
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He only looks good though. As of this moment he's the worst coach in Polish football history
Have just seen him on TV because his team is gonna play again my team tomorrow and I must say he lost a lot with his hair cut. This is ageing has but he’s still hot and this Portuguese accent while speaking Spanish is irresistible.

Who cares about football (soccer) in front of this product of gods.

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We met again. He told me about himself. He is nice and sweet. He said he would return to meet me again. So far, it is going well. He has a kid and is working hard to pay for his upkeep. He also has his own store which keeps him busy. I think we are heading in the right direction. I will take it one day at a time. I am in no rush to do anything. I was happy he decided to meet me again. All smiles!
And I’m very happy for you because I know it’s not easy to find a person you (me...whoever) suits well with. And dating sites are like a lottery.
You are being very courageous and you learnt a lot about what you want and what you don’t.

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Who cares about football (soccer) in front of this product of gods.
The majority of men and many women who see more than looks, you shallow lady He lost so many games with my team that I honestly doubt he has balls.. it may change if he beats Spain today (highly unlikely).
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So, this soccer player and I will not work out, I believe. He keeps talking about his ex-wife and son. I think he is having a hard time letting go. So, I will let him go. I understand it is hard for him. I don't have any hard feelings for him but don't think it is going to work out. He also smokes which I don't appreciate. He was a nice fling though.
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So, this soccer player and I will not work out, I believe. He keeps talking about his ex-wife and son. I think he is having a hard time letting go. So, I will let him go. I understand it is hard for him. I don't have any hard feelings for him but don't think it is going to work out. He also smokes which I don't appreciate. He was a nice fling though.

Fling? You already had sex?

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The majority of men and many women who see more than looks, you shallow lady He lost so many games with my team that I honestly doubt he has balls.. it may change if he beats Spain today (highly unlikely).
You beat us. By far. You have the clearest options to score. Spanish selection, my team, didn’t play well from the get go. We have no chance. But, well...it’s a game. I’m happy your team still have chance.
Anyway, I don’t think my team or your team will have much future in this European competition. But, I’m happy to see Paulo Sousa again.

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So, this soccer player and I will not work out, I believe. He keeps talking about his ex-wife and son. I think he is having a hard time letting go. So, I will let him go. I understand it is hard for him. I don't have any hard feelings for him but don't think it is going to work out. He also smokes which I don't appreciate. He was a nice fling though.
Well for you!

What I don’t understand is why in the Earth he’s in a dating site when he’s still hanged to his ex.
It’s clear that you are not gonna be his clear cloth.
You do well with putting a distance. 👍

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We have no chance
Just beat Slovakia and you're back lol
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Just beat Slovakia and you're back lol
I’m not religious, so I don’t believe in miracles lol!

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@bpforever1, my apologises for derailing your thread.
It wasn’t my intention. Paulo Sousa is to be blamed.

Said that, how are you doing? I was just thinking on one side that you are very brave for trying on a dating site (I mean that I wouldn’t ever dare to because of my social phobia with people) on another side, I was wondering if you have time and have considered the possibility to meet people in other social circles, such as, doing tasks you enjoy. I don’t know how much free time you have and from your posts I deduced you are at your limits with energy to do stuff. Only asking you about this possibility where you can see people’s faces right away.

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I am not seeing anyone now. I feel fine. After seeing one man after another, I am tired of it. So, it is nice to be doing things that I want. I will be fine. Besides, I still talk to other men online but they are just buddies for now. One I have known for over two years online. We are penpals. I need to take a rest from dating. I had no luck again and know it might be wise to just be happy with myself.
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