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#41
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Ignoring skin care for two weeks is a “life style” and “hygiene” issue, not “looks” issue. It’s about how you carry yourself. You can have the most perfect body and facial feature but if you ignore basic health routine and refuse to groom yourself, then your issue is not “looks”. Size of my nose or my height for example I can’t control. Dressing in random clothes or or washing my face I sure can control |
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I've been married longer than you've been alive. Its more important to focus on compatibility. You have to be friends first. Maybe your problem isn't your looks. It could be your attitude towards yourself. If you like yourself and are self confidedent it shows in the way you carry yourself and women notice that. On the most primitive level, men want women who will be good breeders and the women want the strongest men as providers for them and their children. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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I didn't say don't take care of your skin. I was talking about taking care of my post-acne routines that keep my skin in great shape. Neglecting my diet? I was talking about gaining few pounds just so I won't have classic muscular body type, but more average/random. These three have nothing to do with the message you're talking about and trust me - they make a DIFFERENCE. If you don't believe it, be aware of today's girls in mid 20s. They care about it a lot. |
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I’m sorry my writing didn’t make sense to you. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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#47
This is a difficult subject. Feel I could be very controversial with what I say here.
Having both in equal measure would be ideal, but life isn't like that. How we are "wired" means we have different priorities and as we age, they may change. So now I'm going to give the personal opinion of a single female, mature in age. I think there needs to be "something". A sparkle in their eyes and a nice smile. Am I bothered about eye or hair colour, no. I prefer guys with hair, sorry the shaved look doesn't do it for me. Nor do tattoos or earrings. I like a guy to be clean and look smart, except when he's doing the garden, lol! Massive ego as bad as no personality at all. Personality wise, someone who can talk about many subjects without making me feel foolish and respect my views. Unfortunately, we live in an age dominated by social media and the quest to have perfect looks. Only a few young people understand that there are other important traits when seeking a life partner. |
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#48
I don’t see issues with your writing. I just don’t understand how good looks are causing problems. Since it’s not causing problems for me I genuinely wanted to know how it causes problems for you. You don’t have to respond. I was just curious
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The issue is with my writing because that’s not exactly what I was saying. I was saying relationship based on looks is problematic. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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I wish you the best of luck. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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You can pretend to know anything you want, but trust me my boy, you would be shocked to your core if you knew what you think you know. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#53
In all fairness to BigBubba at 26 his piers can actually still be shallow and all about looks still
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You can label me as stupid as you pretty much did because of my age or you can think about what I'm saying to you. Imagine a random pretty girl - Sarah. There is a difference between Sarah who meets 2-3 potential partners a year and Sarah who gets 30 guys ready to talk to her in 10 minutes on tinder. |
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It wasn’t asking if it’s more important in getting chats with random guys on a hook up site Good looking girls will get more hits and chats on a hook up site like tinder, it’s true, or on any dating site. But it will not be more important than personality in a relationship because guys will drop her like a hot potato if she has a nasty personality and her life is a mess (if they consider relationship). Her looks will not be more important in a relationship Plenty of average or below average looking people enjoy happy relationships. If looks were more important, only good looking people will be in relationships and it’s simply not true. I think that’s where disconnect is. People talking about relationships because that’s what thread was about but you talk about good looking people being noticed more. And specifically use example of a hook up site. It’s not the same topic. It’s a valid topic, just a different one. |
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My point is that, in my opinion, personality doesnt matter without at least decent looks. And I honestly believe that prettier people can get away with much more than less attractive folks. Also, I can't prove it based on my expierence, but I feel like many people would choose someone with worse personality if they were higher on the looks ladder. When things go south on the couple, physcial attraction is very often the only thing that keeps the two of them "hooked". I mean even on this forum in the "divorce" section we can find many broken marriages when one party says "but I'm still attracted to him". That proves my point. |
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I don't think you're stupid. Sadly, I think you're hopeless. Many many people on this thread have offered you great advice. You might want to listen, but I doubt you will. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#58
I have no idea what you're talking about right now. When I was physically unnatractive I was doing not so well with women. When I shaped up and became attractive I had some spectacular results and mostly I was doing very well. The conclusion was looks matter a lot. Now I share that point of view and you call me hopeless?
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__________________ Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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#60
Maybe, I never been comitted. But I bet having physically attractive partner doesn't hurt in the long term, right?
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