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It's also tiring when people "care" too much. They think they can judge you and that you have to follow all the advice they give. Personally, I want only those people whom I care about to care about me.
Plus, in my native language,"how are you" is simply a "hello," so I don't really expect people to actually want to know what's going on in my life. On the contrary, many people in my country are too inquisitive about other people's lives. They ask too much, but they actually don't care. They just want something to gossip about. I think that's even worse. |
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Otherwise you have to wait until you are an old guy and you just meet the same bunch of other old guys for coffee at mcdonalds every morning. This is why god invented sex. It makes you think you have something in common. Dont mind me, im old but i was cynical when i was younger too. |
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It sounds like you don’t like high maintenance people. In terms of expectations it’s true they lower our serenity. Expectations are healthy in a committed relationship and normal, to my understanding, however I don’t think you’re talking about committed relationships. |
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What does it matter if people ask or not? They are just small talk or being friendly. In what context do you know these people? |
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Nobody cares how I am doing. They are asking out of politeness so I give them the sketchiest outline before I turn the spotlight on them. If they are genuinely interested they have the option of asking more questions. I keep an open body language. If they show no further interest, I don't hold it against them or judge them. I don’t show much interest in others' lives either. Maybe we can have a deep and meaningful about a specific topic. But generally asking about each other is more about social nicety than genuine interest, in my humble opinion. I do respect contrary opinions, though.
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I didn’t mean to make it sound like I’m bothered, this mentality doesn’t bother me at all. This was just a general question on whether others felt the same way and had the same mentality.
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