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#21
I just want to say that you can live without a partner , with a disability, and without a car , but you will probably have to work .
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#22
I’d talk to a lawyer and see what the chances are re spousal support. It might be significant amount that will allow her to function and possibly not work. My husband’s ex only worked 10 hours a week after divorce and lived fully on a spousal support that we paid her and we thought she also got some welfare. Her spousal support wasn’t indefinite as she was not on disability but I heard some stories if ex spouse is on disability spousal support might be for life. Bottom line is to talk to a lawyer
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#23
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The issue is both. Bottom line, his profile reads like he's a single man looking for a good time. Yeah I know what a walking effed up disaster I am. I know how hard I am to live with and I've never found a med that controls my overly extreme emotions. I know he's sick to death of dealing with it after 20 years. Just if you want to replace me, have the common decency to tell me before you go looking. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#24
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I texted my pdoc and T that evening and told them. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#26
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I’m not familiar with the term TRD. For myself , I can’t take much seroquel because I work . |
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Yes,he's aware of how I feel. My intention in that paragraph was to tell all he does for me. I do drive. Just not to the ketamine clinic and back. See if you can drive numb. He's not a damn taxi service. He gets a wife who would die of a broken heart if anything ever happened to him. He gets an excellent cook and my appreciation for starters. He's my best friend and my soul mate. Yeah, it's not great right now but it's tolerable. Oh, and I gave him his son he always wanted. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#28
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#30
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You sound resentful towards the other posters? What response would you like? |
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#31
I find it absurd that someone has one complaint about their spouse and almost everyone is all about "leave him now!" It's not so easy, and very possibly not a wise move.
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#32
He doesn't mind driving me to my treatments and I need assistance to get to the car after. It's a 40 mile trip one way.
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I'm not the least bit resentful. If I don't want feedback, positive or negative, I don't post. My situation is very, very confusing right now. I apologize if I offended anyone. It was not my intention and I think it best to close the thread. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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#34
__________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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#35
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I meant because you said “tough crowd” that you weren’t getting useful feedback . It sounds like you just needed to vent. I wish you the best. |
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#36
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I and it sounds like several others just don’t understand staying for a reason of him driving to appointments. Tons of people don’t drive, are sick and have never been married. Not every woman has a man to drive her anywhere or do anything for her at all. |
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