[GIVNGUPONLUV]

So my girlfriend first gets a call from her babydaddy, which I tell her he's calling since she left her phone in the bathroom, she refuses to answer the call, and proceeds to reinforce to me that its not cuz she can't talk to him in front of me, just that she doesn't care to deal with him right then. Then roughly 10 min. Later she asks me to drive my car a block down the street to drop off her assessment paperwork, which should take all of 5 minutes, and which I point out to her when she asks me if I will be okay with the baby, while she goes to do this, like it's gonna take awhile to do. When she starts loading up her purse with all of her makeup, I ask her why she's taking all of that to drive a block down the street, drop off a paper, and come back..?? She then decides to stay home, telling me she will just go tomorrow...??? am i wrong for thinking shes up to something....???

[Yaowen]

Dear GIVNGUPONLUV,

I think your feelings are understandable given the circumstances you describe. Not sure, though, that I am the best person for advice about this since I tend to be a bit suspicious by nature. Are there other things going on that contribute to your suspicion? Sometimes it is incredibly difficult to know when suspicions are warranted. I've had some bad experiences with being too trusting and perhaps that has affected my judgement. Hopefully many people here will see your post, people more objective than me, and will kindly and helpfully respond to it. You deserve good advice. I hope things work out for the best for you!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen

[RoxanneToto]

This does sound a little strange, I have to admit. I’m not sure what to suggest but you’re likely right she’s up to something, if you’re having this gut reaction.

[MickeyCheeky]

Welcome! So Sorry things are being difficult also! Hugs. i may partly agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that something may be up but i don't feel comfortable making assumptions. i'd suggest to talk to her about this or find a way to deal with the problem. We have a forum dedicated to relationships and communication so you may be interested in checking that one. Hopefully it will be of some help also. M. Feel free to contact the admins and moderators in case you need any assistance. i am also available if you need it and Hopefully many others as well. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @GIVNGUPONLUV, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

[Werewoman]

Originally Posted by GIVNGUPONLUV

So my girlfriend first gets a call from her babydaddy, which I tell her he's calling since she left her phone in the bathroom, she refuses to answer the call, and proceeds to reinforce to me that its not cuz she can't talk to him in front of me, just that she doesn't care to deal with him right then. Then roughly 10 min. Later she asks me to drive my car a block down the street to drop off her assessment paperwork, which should take all of 5 minutes, and which I point out to her when she asks me if I will be okay with the baby, while she goes to do this, like it's gonna take awhile to do. When she starts loading up her purse with all of her makeup, I ask her why she's taking all of that to drive a block down the street, drop off a paper, and come back..?? She then decides to stay home, telling me she will just go tomorrow...??? am i wrong for thinking shes up to something....???

I say she's up to something. Possibly getting back with her baby daddy? I'd be paying close attention to her, that's for sure.